we are always with his family but never mine. he hasnt seen my family in a month but we are with his everynight
2007-04-03 09:31:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
be careful men who do not want there spouse or girlfriend around there families tend to be controlling and abusive. does he want you around your friends
2007-04-03 09:35:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well good luck my dear.I have been with my husband for 21 years Married for 15 and my Husband only see's my family on the holidays.Now his family on the other hand we See all the time,His brother is at our house 4 days a week and we go camping with his family,Mom and Dad Brother and sister in law and kids and another Brother,we take a weeks vacation with them every year!! I tend not to agree with it and voice my opinion but we are still doing it!! I meen I talk to my mom every other day and I do Visit my parents at least twice a month,If I can.But I do not try to shove them down my Husbands Throat.Good Luck My Dear.
2007-04-03 09:38:12 · answer #2 · answered by Dew 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he feels like he's not welcome there? or it could be he's just maybe embarrassed for your family to see him? cus my boyfriend was a lil bit like that @ 1st he felt like my dad wanted to KILL HIM! LOL but everything turned out for the best of it but his family is a whole different story but it doesn't matter as long as we love each other we're are not going to let them get in our way anymore. Which was one of our problems & we used to break up for that our familes. But we faced the fact our feelings we have for eachother are much more stonger than our families all put together...& a have a BIG FAMILY LOL so don't let lil things like this get in your way of your happiness. Try asking him whts up and he'll make things more clear you'll see. All good things come to those who wait. So now it's up to you to step up to the plate & tell him calmly and rational. & that's my advice to you cus you'll never know what you got till you ask some1 wht it is. CALI' GIRL saying bye. good luck.
2007-04-03 09:44:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably feels insecure about being the odd man out but thats selfish and he should be willing to spend time with both of your families.
2007-04-03 09:35:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my situation is the exact opposite. He loves my family but in the 9 months we've ben together I have never met his and we all live in the same town. weird!
2007-04-03 09:45:01 · answer #5 · answered by tara b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he just isn't comfortable for some reason. He might feel like they don't like him or that he will do something to make them not like him. He just sounds kind of insecure. Make him spend time with your family and he will be more comfortable around them and want to spend more time with them.
2007-04-03 09:34:58 · answer #6 · answered by ○•○•Cassie•○•○ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he might be scared to commitment. when he meets your family they expect you to get married and have kids maybe he's not ready for that kind of commitment. talk and ask him about it.
2007-04-03 09:35:21 · answer #7 · answered by mike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well girl if he only wants to be around his family he only wants one thing and its not love and if he dosent gwet it he will dump you
2007-04-03 09:38:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ASK!
2007-04-03 09:34:25 · answer #9 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋