Ok you are newley weds and you have a seven month old that was born 3 months before you got married. Your housband goes to mexico because that is were he is origanly from for 2 weeks. You know for a fact that a lot of females like him and would do anything to have his baby. What would you do?
2007-04-03 08:54:44 · 31 answers · asked by chrissy20us 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
how is it you know that many women want to have his baby?
if you dont trust him go with him - dont let him go alone
2007-04-03 09:01:33 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Sabre♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why didn't you go with him? This isn't a good start to a marriage you sound like you don't trust him. Have you talked to him about how you feel im sure he would be upset to know that's how you feel. I hope this isn't too personal to ask but is there a chance you could have some sort of post natal depression if you feel down id go and see a doctor. If not the case I would talk to you husband he cant reassure you unless he knows there is a problem.
2007-04-03 16:03:31 · answer #2 · answered by phillippa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if your married I wouldnt worry about it. If he is the type to cheat hes going to do it regaurdless of where he is, and just because hes further away dont mean hes going to let anything happen especially if he is married. I think people especially being newly weds should have nothing but trust for eachother, you obviously loved eachother to want to spend your lives together.. I would think just believe he is being faithful until you are proven otherwise. There is no reason to believe just because all these girls might want to/do anything to be with him, or have babies by him that he will let anything happen, and if he told you about how the women are down there then its usually just so you think that there are a bunch of women who want him, and to make you feel like your lucky because you have him. I dont know how else to explain it besides that it just comes down to trusting, and believing they would never do that to you even with any doubts you might have.
2007-04-03 16:02:43 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask straight out what this marriage is going to be like. Are we going to be together and married or is it "you" and "me and the baby?" Tell him you can handle the truth, but you need to know before you have more kids and more lies and more secrets. Trust only goes so far. People are fallable and the only one you can really trust is God. So get the truth, and then decide what to do.
2007-04-03 16:02:43 · answer #4 · answered by mom of 5 in CA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In such a situation, I would trust that my husband loves me and would never risk losing me and everything we have built together to be with some chick that wants to get pregnant in Mexico. My husband knows that if he violates my trust I'm out the door, no turning back because I have things going for me and I never need to put up with anyone's bull****
Does yours?
2007-04-03 16:01:23 · answer #5 · answered by Andrea M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What would you do about what? Do you mean would you be upset about him leaving for 2 weeks? Why would you think he would sleep with some woman? Do you not trust him? Can you can and the baby go with him? Either go with him or tell him that if he sleeps with anyone you will cut his di** off.
2007-04-03 16:02:24 · answer #6 · answered by batscout 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you don't trust him that much. You both need to talk and evaluate why there is a lack of trust.
BTW: Is there a reason you can't travel with him to Mexico?
2007-04-03 15:58:24 · answer #7 · answered by phxchik07 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with him! Or you trust him and show him respect and ask GOd to protect him and to frustrate the plans of the enemy in his life. Jealousy is a terrible thing. It stems from rejection. If you are going to speak the negative over your life it will happen. What you speak or confess is what will happen to you. Speak life over yourselves and not death. Speak positive things and believe positive things. IF you continue to live via feelings and emotions you may as well give up everything right now. Override them and CHOOSE to do the right thing. Its not as difficult as it sounds, but it requires commitment and accountability. Do you think you can do that?
2007-04-03 16:40:00 · answer #8 · answered by uniquechild 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why was it not a family holiday.
And you have just got married and already you are doubting him??? What is that all about?
Has he given you any reason not to trust him before.
Wait til he gets back and talk to him,he is married now and i dont think he should be going on a singles holiday,but i dont think you should be doubting him either.
2007-04-03 16:06:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If your newlywed husband is going to Mexico for two weeks...it's to be with another woman. No one leaves their wife and new baby for that long that soon unless there is a very good reason...and she isn't giving one so there must not be one. There are a lot of guys who have families on both sides of the border, you may soon join their ranks.
Sorry girl but his one doesn't sound good for you, unless you like sharing. Looks like you made a bad choice in husbands.
I hope I am wrong, but odds are on my side.
2007-04-03 15:59:30 · answer #10 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
A large part of marriage is trust. You need to learn to trust he will do the right thing when approached by other women.
2007-04-03 15:59:19 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋