Just curious what you think!
2007-04-03 08:54:16 · 18 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
HE tried knocking me up too. His sister told me I am the third girl recently he's tried to get with. He insists he wants to have children. He's a MARINE FOR GOD SAKES. He said waiting for a while would probably be a better idea. Should I or should I not see him?
2007-04-03 09:03:01 · update #1
RUN!!!
2007-04-03 10:04:58 · answer #1 · answered by JV 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He tried knocking you up? Is this a phrase saying he tried to rape you? I hope not for it sounds like you have been with him enough to know him and to see his mindset.
If he is a Marine, then he is not a Marine that is following the rules of conduct for his service not only to the Corp, but to God, Country and his self image of being a respectful person to fellow human beings.
How old is he? Does he have siblings? Are his parents still alive? Has he been overseas/deployed in response to the war on terror? Has he had a recent death in his immediate family?
I ask all this since I have come to realize, as an Air Force spouse, that people who have been "under fire" come back with a different perspective on what family and life mean to them. Life is short and if he has seen many of his buddies get shot up, blown up or killed, then he may see how these people have left behind young spouses, children and bereaved family. He may be wanting to leave his legacy in the form of a new child, so that if he does die in battle, his family line is intact within you and your children.
This is just my perspective and take it as my own personal experience, and I am no counselor. Just have eyes to see and a heart for my fellow spouses who are in the military.
2007-04-03 16:17:15 · answer #2 · answered by Serpico 13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, he's a Marine. I think he might be a little bit lonely and wants to settle down, but is rushing it a bit much. He doesn't know that much about you yet. And for your own protection, refuse to sleep with him if you know he's trying to get you pregnant. If he really cares about you, then he won't pressure you. Ask him straight up if he knows how stupid that question is after three weeks. Even his fellow Marines would say the same thing.
2007-04-03 16:08:56 · answer #3 · answered by 2Beagles 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a little fast 3 months fast but not oo fast but less then a month wow!. It was 6 months for me when I proposed to my wife it appears this guy is either very desperate and needs to get married now or he is afraid of losing you to another guy. I seriously would ask why he is asking so soon after dating you? But other then being too fast and maybe a bit strange my first inclination would be to say NO it's to much to soon lets get to know each other I would just tell him it ain't going to happen anytime soon if that is what you want.
Hope this helps god bless and good luck.
2007-04-03 16:02:43 · answer #4 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what being a Marine has to do with this; and I'm not sure sisters are always the best source of information when it comes to their brothers.
But I can address the 3 weeks question. I asked my wife to marry me on the first date; and it was the best thing I ever did.
2007-04-03 16:09:22 · answer #5 · answered by Sultan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is a marine he may be afraind that if he doesn't find someone soon and have a child, that he may be deployed and never get the opportunity if you know what I mean. A lot of military think like that.
My personal thoughts are RUN AWAY!!!!
2007-04-03 17:28:48 · answer #6 · answered by swtlilblonde31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on the relationship. It could be extremely romantic, or it could be a death sentence.
My grandparents knew eachother for 11 days, before they were engaged, and 11 months before they were married.
They were married 56 years until my grandmother passed away, and I still think of them as the most in love couple I have ever met.
2007-04-03 16:00:59 · answer #7 · answered by Zenthae 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, keep those legs together ;change your address; change your phone number; run and hide. This is a disaster in the making. At best you are looking at a pseudo-relationship;based on smoke. At worst you could be setting yourself up to be abused. 3 weeks is not love; it is a rental .
2007-04-03 20:03:09 · answer #8 · answered by Bonnie K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that's a little scary and would be a big red flag for me
2007-04-03 15:57:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband pretty much did that with me.
We are going to be having our 20th. ann. in May.
And we have 3 daughters.
2007-04-03 16:04:25 · answer #10 · answered by siamesedream86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was the woman, I would be gone right then and there. This guy is trouble.
2007-04-03 15:59:43 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋