I already make a good girlfriend to my girlfriend and marriage her and I think that marriage can be a possible option or a strong possiblity as we get older, and my friends keep on telling me that I would make a good wife one day, because I am loyal, honest, trustworthy, faithful, and also most importantly very true but, but her and I just met I mean I don't want to rush things we her and I just met but her and my friends are already talking about our future together we are only 16 what do I nor her know abour marriage please help me thanks
2007-04-03 07:16:15 · 15 answers · asked by shame on them 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I'm sure you'll be a wonderful wife someday!
But not yet I think ... you are so young...enjoy your teenage years a little bit more and built on the relationship with your girlfriend. You still have time to make decisions about marriage...you still have a long life before you!
Good luck in the future!
2007-04-03 07:29:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
With the qualities you listed you probably will make a good wife someday. However, at 16 you have much more important things to worry about like graduating high school, and going to a decent college. Having a good education will give you more chances to get a better job and have a better income, then you can add "good provider" to that list of qualities that everyone wants in a mate. Make sure you know the person really well before you even think about marrying them. I've had good friends rush into marriage and it was always a disaster. Good luck to you.
2007-04-03 14:31:06 · answer #2 · answered by dckrek27 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you will make an awesome wife, but wait a while and keep your options open. I have been with my woman since we were 18 and 19, and we are still together after 9 years. I grew into being an awesome wife. It does not happen over night. But you don't have to get legally married. Who needs some dumb piece of paper that the government makes youu pay for? Marriage is work. You have to be ready to stay together through thick and thin. I hope everything works out for you! Keep staying True!
2007-04-03 15:30:06 · answer #3 · answered by butterfly47112 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, this is one of those cases that when you are 25 years old and you look back, you will ask yourself why did I choose to mess my life up. You can barely understand what is going on around you, let alone be able to actually look outside your surroundings. The world is a much bigger place then you think and you shouldn't close your door on it just because your hormones are freaking out. Just wait until you pass the full cycle of pubirty, you'll see that you will start exploding with sudden temperature changes, mood swings, etc. Wait... just wait. Homesexuality in women is mostly not genetic and merly a choice. Just use this experience for learning about your possibilities and don't shut the door on everything else, because there are many wounderful things out there for you to experience. And marriage, why, think about it, why... Realize that your expectations of marriage is not the reality of marriage. It's not a fairy tail like everyone your age makes it out to be. Think what marrieage would actually do for you, take the time and research, then make a decision. Or you can ignore my message and start seeing a psychotheraist in about 10 years, who will try to explain to you that the decisions you made have rendered you socially useless.
2007-04-03 14:29:53 · answer #4 · answered by Ilya S 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Slow down. You are only 16. There is no hurry. Be the best girlfriend you can be right now and let the other stuff happen in its time. Concentrating on today you will put more into it and get much more out of it. Stick with that and someday when you are truly ready you will make one heck of a wife.
2007-04-03 14:23:42 · answer #5 · answered by hopeartaspirer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Slow down, take a deep breath, and remember how to use punctuation. You sound like you delivered your whole question in one quick, rushed breath!
OK - can you? Sure you can. But 16 is awfully young to worry about that. For now, just stay friends with her, date her, and worry about what you'll do next month, not the rest of your life. You can think about marriage when it's legalized (and it will be), and when you're 25 or so. Until then, just enjoy being a teenager. You only get one chance to do it, so don't rush past this great time of your life!
2007-04-03 14:23:17 · answer #6 · answered by Ralfcoder 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You absolutely stand a chance of making some woman very happy someday but you are only 16! You will probably date several women before you settle down with the "one" That is how it should be... you are far too young to be thinking about the rest of your life with one person, and obviously, you know it since you are having confused feelings about it. Just enjoy yourself and don't let yourself get tied down no matter what your friends say.
2007-04-03 14:21:02 · answer #7 · answered by Beth B 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Just enjoy each day as they happen and make the most of them. When/if the time is right, one of you two might propose to the other.
2007-04-03 14:28:08 · answer #8 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marry here after you turn 18--preferably when you both are in your 20s in order to get a better perspective on marriage.
2007-04-03 14:20:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Take your time. That is the deciding factor. If it will stand the test of time then it will work. If you never give it the time necessary then you will never know until it is too late.
2007-04-03 15:04:30 · answer #10 · answered by bocasbeachbum 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋