me and my bestfriend slept together last night. were both fully naked but we did nothing. i just wanna know if that kind of act is a gay role?
2007-04-03 06:31:01 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
If you did nothing sexually, it's not gay.
A little unusual maybe, but no big deal.
I always sleep nude.
2007-04-03 06:43:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Of course not. Gay means you have only sexual interest in the same sex, and are not aroused by the opposite sex. Do you get hard seeing a naked girl?
Even if you did you get hard laying with your bud or you each masterbated, so what, that is called bonding. Even playing with each other for fun a few times is not being "gay"--just sexually open. Sure not weird to sleep nude with other guys, in the US our guys are getting to be such prudes. On my senior trip years back, we all slept nude, 2 to a bed, because we slept nude anyway--nothing happened, it was normal and natural, just like being in the locker room and showers with the guys.
2007-04-03 17:13:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dude, it doesn't necessarily mean you're gay. I'm a happy, totally straight guy and I did a little light experimentation (no oral or anal or anything) when I was younger, also with my best friend. It was fun, but we both decided it wasn't for us. I wouldn't have done it with anyone other than him, we were very close and cared a lot for each other. We're still best friends today and happily married with no doubts as to our orientation.
2007-04-03 15:57:28 · answer #3 · answered by Jake Y 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You know there handsome.... you are asking a lot of questions with scenarios involving possible gay attributes and if you might be gay. OK...you're probably, almost certainly gay....or at least very interesting in giving it a try. Do it and move on.
2007-04-06 21:14:01 · answer #4 · answered by iraq51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since nothing happened, I would say that strictly speaking it wasn't a gay act, but at the same time straight men don't usually go to bed with their friends.
2007-04-03 14:20:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Wow, sounds like you guys did a gay thing, but that dosent mean you are gay, a lot of time teen guys experiment, because we are trying to learn and grow sexually, and at times other males may seem attractive, but for most men its only because they are insecure about their own bodies, but if you are gay then there is nothing wrong with that either, just think it through first, and talk to your friend, try to stay friends after, because you can help each other understand your feelings, hop i helped.
2007-04-03 13:37:22 · answer #6 · answered by cujo#31 2 · 4⤊ 2⤋
That's ridiculous. Nudity is one of the most intimate ways of communication and showing complete trust. It all depends on how you consider it; do you feel you were acting in a gay manner? If not, don't worry about it. If so, don't worry about it. It doesn't matter. Just don't sweat it; it's not a big deal.
2007-04-03 13:37:34 · answer #7 · answered by Lydia 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Different cultures would say different things.
You may just feel comfortable with each other; especially if nothing sexual happened.
Typically, guys fear intimacy with each other. You may both be secure in your male identity.
2007-04-03 14:37:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
experimentation doesn't mean your necessarily gay, but if you suck his wang or let him poke you I'd say you are pretty gay. What the hey. Licking his butt is a bad sign as well.
2007-04-03 15:04:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
no. you did nothing, just sleep next to each other.
2007-04-03 13:53:44 · answer #10 · answered by loko07 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋