can sleeping with an ex lead to a relationship? i havent yet but he asked me if i would and that nothing will come of it. but could feelings change if we start having relations?
2007-04-03 06:13:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Feelings could definitely change. If you don't want to be anything but friends then personally I don't think you should have physical relations. If you wouldn't mind something more than friendship then go for it and see what happens.
2007-04-03 06:17:44 · answer #1 · answered by Teia 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't know about you but don't you like it when you meet your ex and it clicks to you FINALLY that you are over him? it's always nice feeling like you are on top of things again, especially if the reason you broke up is cuz he did something wrong that led to your break up. i think that if you are looking to move on with your life then it's best to not sleep with him, it'll only certify to him that you are still a little hung up over him and he'll feel like he still has a claim on you. i don't think it'll feel good afterwards either cuz then you know that what you are doing won't lead to anything meaningful. my best advice to you is don't do it, you sound like a lovely person and you shouldn't sell yourself short. i bet there's someone out there who won't settle for enjoying you at a distance. instead wait for someone who'll be able and willing to take on the whole package. the fact that this guy even mentioned that nothing would come of it shows me that he's cocky, that's not the kinda person you want to waste your time doing. look, it's best to move on and let the past be...to answer your other question, chances are that emotions could be jump started but it's not guaranteed that it'll happen for both parties. that's the part that sucks(trust me, i speak from experience). hope it goes well for you...
2007-04-03 06:38:36 · answer #2 · answered by bossylee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you allow feelings to creep in, yes. Women are more emotional by nature. I have a good friend who is always preaching to me about how women attach emotion to sex, and love and sex are two different things. However, we as women, usually do equate sex with love. If you do it, make sure you don't let your heart lead you. He only wants one thing. If you're up for it, then be prepared for it to be all physical for him, nothing more. Can you do the same?
2007-04-03 06:18:28 · answer #3 · answered by a_lot_smarter_now 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont it do. take it from a person who has been there and done that, it only leads to old ways and if you're trying to move on thn it's not worth it. in my situation it lead to him thinking he can get it whenever he wants it and that no matter what that i would be like "oh, ok. sure why not" then then think nothing of it afterwards
2007-04-03 06:19:34 · answer #4 · answered by yv060183 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's obviously an ex for a reason. REMEMBER THE REASONS YOU ARE NOT TOGETHER ANYMORE. Why go backwards and sleep with him again? Move forward and find someone new!
2007-04-03 06:18:03 · answer #5 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not if it's just about the sex. i've been sleeping with my ex a few times a year for 10 years since we broke up. nothing comes of it, it's just really good. go for it and enjoy!
2007-04-03 06:17:49 · answer #6 · answered by a girl like any other 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Anything is possible, especially when it comes to sex. I would avoid it at all costs, there is a reason an ex is an ex.
2007-04-03 06:17:34 · answer #7 · answered by decipherXL 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go for it! There is ALWAYS something nice left in an ex-relationship. If that part was cool at the time, "go for launch!"
2007-04-03 06:18:37 · answer #8 · answered by QuoVadis? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In this case- No. If he says that nothing will come of it, nothing will come of it.
A man list of people he will have sex with is longer than his list of people he will have a relationship with--much longer for many.
2007-04-03 06:19:44 · answer #9 · answered by jrtcpa@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't matter. You don't have sex with him because HE'S AN EX. That's why you don't sleep with him.
2007-04-03 06:17:30 · answer #10 · answered by JB 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋