just asking because i was real close of having sex and the boy was only 1 year older but i was scared and my parents was home so that made it even worser he had told me that if it hurt he was going to leave and go home and we will try it another time the way he had said had me wondering does it hurt when you do it for the first time? he had also said he had 2 condoms so that wasnt bothering it was just the way it feels so please answer my question i need to know before i go through with it
2007-04-03 05:28:03 · 32 answers · asked by Chante T 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
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2007-04-03 05:31:33 · answer #1 · answered by braslinbabe85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will hurt some the first time. If you are nervous and scared it will probably hurt worse. Just try to take things slowly and relax. You boyfriend needs to know it is your first time so he can be gentle. The condoms are a good idea. I will advise you to wait and make sure that you are ready, but just know that when you are ready you need to use protection and yes it will be kind of uncomfortable the first time and maybe even the first few times.
2007-04-03 07:58:32 · answer #2 · answered by kat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for me it was kind of painful the first time but not unbearable. It depends for each girl. If a girl still has a fully intact hymen it will hurt more because it breaks. It also depends on whether the girl has masturbated before. If she has inserted anything in her before then that may reduce the pain level when she loses her virginity. Insertion of tampons will most likely break the hymen so it will hurt less when having sex the first time.
2007-04-03 06:48:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're under 18 it will most likely kill you to have sex. Do you think I'm kidding?? I don't know if that "makes it worser" or not, but it's true!
Oh, and how romantic: "If it hurts, I'm going to leave and go home and we'll try again some other time". LOL Now that's commitment!!
2007-04-03 07:14:50 · answer #4 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't sound old enough to even have sex. Don't do it. Yes it hurts badly and it makes you bleed. Wait till your older or even married, you want it to be with someone special, not with someone you regret doing it with. Why should he leave? He obviously is only after one thing. If he cares about you then he'll respect your decision and stay there with you and do something else. Be careful.
2007-04-03 05:34:13 · answer #5 · answered by sarah 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For someone who doesn't know that there is no such word as 'worser' you sound pretty young. And yes, sex will hurt for the first time if your hymen hasn't been broken yet.
2007-04-03 15:02:25 · answer #6 · answered by destroy__it 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it can hurt...first, you both are inexperienced in the way things fit and if you two are not in the right positions, it may be uncomfortable...2nd, if you are not lubricated enough, his penis will not glide in and out like it is supposed to while he is thrusting....
use a watersoluble lubruicant (not vaseline) so that there is more lubrication if there is not adequate foreplay to produce enough fluid for sex...and it may be easier for you to be on top first as you can insert his penis and you can control the angle at which you can achieve the most comfort...
good luck
2007-04-03 15:09:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its not going to be painless but its not unbearably painful...Consider your age and stuff...Don't just have sex to have sex...Know that its someone that def matters to you before you take that step...If you think your grown up enough for that you should always realize the risk of pregnancy involved with the use of condoms or not...
2007-04-03 05:33:58 · answer #8 · answered by Hopeopensyoureyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for me no, sex is a natural thing and i think if u feel u are ready go ahead, i did when i was 14 and dont regret anything, just do what ur heart is telling u, u learn from ur mistakes, just make sure u use a condom.
2007-04-06 17:11:50 · answer #9 · answered by justme_616 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it does hurt the first time. If your not married you shouldn't do it. You could get and STD, or get pregnant. Listen to your parents and don't be in a hurry to grow up.
2007-04-03 06:12:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not entirely. the guy is supposed to be able to have foreplay with you to get you horny and get wet so that makes it easier for him to get into you and when he's first in you it hurts like hell but once he's all the way in and you really start at it , it doesn't hurt..and of course you'll be a lil sore afterwards.find the best position for youself.
2007-04-03 09:27:35 · answer #11 · answered by bubblehead_hw 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋