well just to say im 17 and 17 weeks pregnant! I just found out a couple days ago that one of my friends dated my babys daddy (but it was back in 5th & 6th grade). I got mad at her for talking about him to me because we arent together hes in jail right now as far as i know and i have a lot of feelings for him. So i told her not to talk about him to me about them being together. So she flipped out on me and we didnt talk for a day and yesterday i forgave her. Now today i was talkin to her and right away she asked me something about him and then she kept going on askin if he was still in jail and why. And then she asked me for his phone number and stuff like that!! ( by the way she is 18 and has a son and she is still with her babys daddy). So now im REALLY pist off and i flipped out on her!!
What do you think about it??
2007-04-03 05:06:10 · 12 answers · asked by CvMamii 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
First off, they dated in 5th or 6th grade! That's not even a real relationship. Who cares? Second, why would you even want to be with this guy anyway? He's in jail and there's probably a really good reason. That's not exactly a positive role model for your child and it's a bad situation for you too. How is he going to be with either of you if he's locked up anyway? I say if she wants him, let her have him. You can do better.
2007-04-03 05:26:18 · answer #1 · answered by sweetsar99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, just let it go. You are holding on to something that happened years ago. This is what is wrong with so many people because they do not know how to let go. Besides why are you worried about a guy that is in jail who fathered your child. You need to be more focused on the fact that you are only 17 getting ready to have a baby. It is time to grow up and leave your childhood alone. Regardless of whether you are ready to do this or not, really doesn't matter because you forfeited this when you became pregnant. Worry about your baby and not some guy that is locked up or another girl that may or may not want him.
2007-04-03 12:20:35 · answer #2 · answered by acey5654 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well your pregnant so your hormones are a little crazy right now. im only 16wks. and i find the little things piss me off and i am sensitive about alot of things as well.
Considering you already told her once and got into a fight about him should make her realize YOU DONT WANT TO TALK ABOUT IT. obviously its a sensitive subject, your babys daddy is in jail and she use to date him. I mean yeah, that was a while ago and i wouldnt worry about anything cause honestly he probably dosnt even remember. If she comes to you with another appology tell her its ok but you thought you make it clear the first time you didnt want to talk about him....
2007-04-03 12:16:36 · answer #3 · answered by AC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say they dated in the 5th and 6th grade so, you have nothing to worry about. That is way in the past, but she doesn't need to be calling him! I guess she won't be since he is in jail right now, but if she really wants to see him again suggestion all of you getting together for dinner so, at least you can keep an eye on her.
2007-04-03 12:13:38 · answer #4 · answered by lysistrata411 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think you over reacted because she knew that it pissed you off in the first place, so when she called and asked all those questions about YOUR boyfriend, she had NO right to continue to ask questions about him it isn't about you as a couple it was just him!! If she was any friend she would have realized that when you very first got mad at her!
2007-04-03 12:23:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a Jerry Springer episode waiting to happen....
Why are you so protective of your boyfriend? He got you pregnant at 17, and now he's in prison, leaving you with all the responsibility. Why would you want him in your life anyways?
I'd give her his phone number. She doesn't sound like a good friend, and he sounds like a loser. You need to worry about being a good mother to your child, not about your friend calling your boyfriend.
You're 17 and pregnant, and unfortunately, you're still acting like a child, when you really need to grow up. If you trust him, then who cares what she says? If it bothers you that much, STOP talking to her! It's that simple.
5th or 6th grade? Are you kidding me?
2007-04-03 12:13:30 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs.Gaddis 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
To be honest, yes I think you are being too sensitive. They dated when they were still just little kids! She probably just wants to reconnect and talk to him. Don't get upset over it, especially if you aren't even with him any more. It's not worth losing a friend over!
2007-04-03 12:12:00 · answer #7 · answered by Meg 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well I could understand her asking basic questions about him but wanting his phone number is going a little to far, I would tell her that it's none of her business and that your with him and she has no reason to be trying to call him
2007-04-03 12:10:30 · answer #8 · answered by cowgrl3611 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should maybe grow up, your about to have a baby and unfortunately are still acting your age. That is all high school drama-grow up. life is to short to be upset and live in such a small hole-look at the bigger picture and your future, dont't drown yourself in the small little petty things that really make no difference.
i regretted my teenage years b/c i was so wrapped up in the small (boyfriend) thing, don't get caught up in the stupid little things you'll reget it later in life.
2007-04-03 12:12:17 · answer #9 · answered by emery_sage 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I donno u might bg being too sensitve she could be just being curios but if she asking for the nubmjer it is a chance she still likes him. i woudlnt be mad that they went out in fifth grade though - thats definatly overreacting
2007-04-03 12:53:34 · answer #10 · answered by lady26 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋