2007-04-03 04:55:59 · 18 answers · asked by lilmomma 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I wouldn't do a darn thing. I assume he loves the child and that's all that matters.
If you’re thinking in terms of terminating child support, think again. At this point, even if a dna test proves he’s not biological father, it's not going to matter. There is a time to contest paternity (which is *during the divorce*) and if it's not contested at the proper time, then you're SOL because you're barred from going back later and doing it.
Now I say that assuming you live in the U.S. (I don’t know why people don’t state where they live because it does make a difference), but if you don’t live in the U.S., then things may be different in your country.
2007-04-03 05:16:11 · answer #1 · answered by kp 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does it bother your husband? if so maybe a DNA test would help. But, if your husband acts like the father of the child and the child see him as the father. What is the problem?
2007-04-03 05:12:34 · answer #2 · answered by Mama~peapod 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What one thinks is outweighed by what one can do under such a circumstance. In my state, if they child is over two and father didn't ask for a paternity test before age 2, and has taken on the role as daddy, you can't legally force a paternity test.
2007-04-03 05:08:29 · answer #3 · answered by E! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would mind my own business!!!! You don't know sh*t about the paternity of the child and you shouldn't let vicious gossip cause you to try to come between your husband and his child. In the event that you and the other gossip mongers push him into having a paternity test and it is his child, you have probably lost your husband!
2007-04-03 05:03:21 · answer #4 · answered by don n 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just leave it alone unless he confronts or asks you about it, then it would be okay to say something. Even if he isnt the father, he probally has developed a great bond with the child, why mess that up.
2007-04-03 05:01:37 · answer #5 · answered by shelly63795 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. The child believes this is her father, I would expect my husband to continue to behave responsibly & lovingly in the child's best interest.
2007-04-03 05:00:58 · answer #6 · answered by Maureen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would mind my own business and say nothing.
If two other people think the child isn't his...let them say it, if they choose to.
Chances are, he's probably heard something about the possibility (if two other people are saying it) and has chosen to disregard the rumor for one reason or another.
2007-04-03 05:03:27 · answer #7 · answered by biiiiaaach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not think whether it is his or not!Poor child he must not be hearing all these at all.The biggest sin is to insult a child's
origin.Now get on with your life !There re alot to seen out there.
2007-04-03 05:01:15 · answer #8 · answered by cool_honeybabe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your mouth shut and be supportive and loving to him and the child.
Unless you have solid proof like DNA don't even bring it up!
If others are talking, then he'll hear it from them!
You know what they say about killing the messenger!?!
2007-04-03 05:01:44 · answer #9 · answered by nailgal2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mind your buisness even if that isnt his child he may still be connected to that child and love the child. think about how devistated the child would be if he really wast the father. watch Maury. if it aint broke dont fix it
2007-04-03 05:00:49 · answer #10 · answered by poeticscribe1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋