I was just curious if there are any married people (one person in the marriage) that chat online, even flirt, and it actually spices up your marriage or your sexual passion?
2007-04-03 04:33:06 · 22 answers · asked by ripped_2007 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I can't say that I do, first of all,if you do have friends on a chatting site, it will not make your love life nor your sexual life more spicy. Just think about it, if one of you do or start doing this for some odd reason the person that's doing it will start being close, or maybe start having fantasy,or will start having this sex talk. It's up to you, just think the circumstances that might happen................
2007-04-03 05:07:26 · answer #1 · answered by islandgirl06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I chat on line and do sometimes flirt. Of course my wife is more than welcome to read anything I write and is well aware of the people I chat with. However the point is to find friends who are open to the things we are open to, interested in doing the things we do, and thus, when we do make such a connection it might very well spice things up. We are happily married, we do not consider it cheating.
2007-04-03 11:43:44 · answer #2 · answered by javelin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From experience, marriage + flirting on line does not = spicy marriage
The way I see it this is a recipe for disaster or at the very least hurt feelings, feelings of inadequacy and possibly depression. This type of behaviour almost always leads to something else, i.e. phone calls, meetings and in some cases affairs and divorce...fortunately my marriage survived but it was a very sad time for me.
2007-04-03 11:50:59 · answer #3 · answered by ac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife absolutely HATES chatting online or emailing total strangers. She believes that if you're going to be friends with somebody, you do it in peson. If you want to date somebody, you meet them in person. If you want to wife swap, you do it in person! ha ha ha! NOT over the internet.
Me on the other hand, I find the internet the best place to share my opinions and views with other people that I wouldn't normally have the chance to talk to. Yes, I have even flirted and talked sex with a few interesting people! And I have been emailed some pretty "interesting" things (pictures, fantasies, experiences, etc). All good harmless fun as far as I am concerned. And although a lot of husbands and wives out there probably wouldn't appreciate their husband or wife chatting it up with somebody online about their sex lives, it sure as hell beats them staying out all night and coming home Saturday morning with a lot of explaining to do!
2007-04-03 11:40:55 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An emotional affair is defined as expressing thoughts, ideas, deep feelings, emotions, or sharing experiences normally reserved for spouse with another person or persons. An emotional affairs differs from a physical affair in that it is not initiated for simple sex. Emotional affairs are often initiated when one spouse is not receiving emotional support from the other spouse and seek fulfillment from another person. Emotional affairs are often viewed as being as devastating to a relationship as an affair that involves only sex. It is safer just to fantasise. Fantasy is accepted form of spicing your relation. Flirting sexually chatting is not.
2007-04-03 11:46:07 · answer #5 · answered by bibus75 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I chat with men and women online, I consider them friends. When chatting goes to flirting its a form of cheating. I don't flirt online because I wouldn't want my husband to flirt online. It would spices up things okay in DIVORCE COURT!
2007-04-03 11:43:12 · answer #6 · answered by letthepartybeginnow 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Happily married people shouldn't be chatting or flirting on line just to spice up their marital passion. If that's what it takes, the marriage is in deep doo doo. :(
2007-04-03 11:39:51 · answer #7 · answered by Shortstuff13 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Involving another person in the marriage is a sure way to create problems. Don't even think about it.
2007-04-03 11:44:33 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Casual chatting is ok but not flirting. Once married you can flirt with your spouse and nobody else.
2007-04-03 11:54:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on the level of flirting. If it truly is innocent flirting than I think it's ok. But it's a FINE LINE to cross over to where you are sharing some level of intimacy with someone other than your spouse....which is wrong.
2007-04-03 11:39:39 · answer #10 · answered by caraanne2005 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋