Its time for Marriage counselling when you can no longer communicate with the other half, without it always turning into an argument, you have to try and find out what your fighting about, it might be money, kids, etc if you can not sort the problems out in your marriage then having a third party involved sometimes helps, to be able to see both sides of the disagreements, you both must want the counselling, or it wont work, when you try the conselling and that doesn't work then its time for divorce, Can you image not living the rest of your life without the other person? Is the marriage worth fighting for? Good Luck and I hope everything works out ok for you both.
2007-04-03 04:48:06
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answered by Anonymous
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When you're not getting along, when you can't remember the last time you made love, when you can't communicate without arguing, when you haven't spoken a word to each other for days or weeks, and when both of you go to bed unhappy because you don't know what's wrong or how to fix things, then it's time for marriage counceling.
When there is physical abuse, major mental and emotional abuse, when your kids watching and seeing the abuse or falling victim to the abuse, and when marriage counceling has failed, then you get divorced.
You do NOT get divorced because you're bored, or you need some excitement, or because your husband won't help with the household chores, or because your married boss claims he loves you. Maybe if more people thought about their vows, focussed on what was best for their marriage, and quit being so damned selfish, there would be a lot fewer broken homes. And a lot fewer kids growing up with little value for marriage or long term commitments.
2007-04-03 11:36:46
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answered by ? 4
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Marriage counseling when you're butting heads without any resolution, and you BOTH want assistance in working out your differences. If you receive no relief, try another counselor.
If neither of the above are of any benefit at all, it may be time to discuss divorce.
2007-04-03 11:46:45
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answered by iyamacog 7
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When one or both of you arent happy and want to work on making the marriage better then its time for counseling. When one or both arent happy and dont want to work the marriage out then its time for a divorce.
2007-04-03 11:45:14
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answered by letthepartybeginnow 3
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It's always time for counseling. Divorce, well......no one knows better than the person involved.
2007-04-03 11:38:36
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answered by KLR 2
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Anytime is the right time for marriage counseling. It will help you to learn how to communicate with one another.
2007-04-03 11:39:07
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answered by Melissa 4
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(1) When feelings for your mate have changed & not for the better
(2) When two people can't communicate anymore
(3) When two people don't have common interests anymore
(4) When two people can't seem to agree on anything
(5) When arguing has become a daily ritual
(6) When one or both no longer respect each other
(7) When one mate or both want to have an affair
(8) When all the passion is gone but there's still love there
2007-04-03 11:46:46
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answered by Shortstuff13 7
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its time for marraige counseling when every conversation turns into an arguement, or you don't have conversations anymore... time for a divorce when the counseling doesn't work.
2007-04-03 11:37:34
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answered by LittleLady 5
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You know it's time for a divorce when you think about what your life would be like if you weren't married. It's sad but true.
2007-04-03 12:45:48
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answered by Lorrie W 5
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when you both have done everything possible to solve your problems and if you feel that nothing is working then divorce. Make sure that you honestly know that it's not working, and your just thinking it's not working. It takes time and it won't happen overnight.
2007-04-03 11:42:18
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answered by Anonymous
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