hello all,
my gf cheated on me a couple of times. she has now latched on with another guy from work.. she says she 'loves' me... but still has SE* with other guy?? i dumped her a few days ago but she wants us to work out and says she is working on her issues. the other guy doesn't wanna lose her for whatever reason.. he went to th extent of telling he 'loves' her and wants to marry her too.. she told him - 'u wanna marry me only cuz you don't want me to go back to my bf'.
my question: is this guy just trying to trick her so he has a good provider for SE* in the back burner or really wants to marry her?? he is american.. she is indian.. she is an attention craving person... thats how she very easily falls for other guys who give her attention.
what do you think?
2007-04-03 04:16:40 · 6 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He's telling her what he thinks will keep her for the sex. Why would you want someone who is cheating on you? You deserve someone who will treat you the way you should be treated. That is disrespectful to you for her actions. This other guy just wants sex and nothing else, he already has seen how easy it is for her to cheat on someone, so why should he want that. There are other ways to get attention, she has a real big problem if this is the only way she thinks she can get a man's attention.
2007-04-03 04:43:29 · answer #1 · answered by Krinta 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think she's a tramp.....if she truly loves you, she doesn't need anyone else. Let her go and when you both dump her she'll move on to the next guy who shows her some attention. He "doesn't want to lose" her because as long as she is with you he has no commitment to her and can use her. When you dump her, chances are, he will too.
2007-04-03 04:22:31 · answer #2 · answered by Tangled Web 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you already made the best decision when you dumped her.
This woman obviously has some issues but it's not up to you to fix her.
Let her go on with her life and make her own mistakes. She cut you out of the process when she decided to cheat.
Find yourself a healthy relationship and good luck!
2007-04-03 04:23:13 · answer #3 · answered by nailgal2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why on GODS green earth would you want the skank? It doesn't matter what we think ( although were thinking you need counseling) if he wants to for good sex or not if you keep her,shes going to continue to be a skank get use to it or kick the trash to the curb.
2007-04-03 04:23:20 · answer #4 · answered by letthepartybeginnow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her loss. I don't understand her thinking, other than she is mental. Get some balls, and forget her.
2007-04-03 07:35:48 · answer #5 · answered by thejanitorsez 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You deserve better, you know that
2007-04-03 04:28:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋