What would be your response if you say someone cutting themselves?

Question

What would u do or say?

Answer 1

calm them down first. see if they need immediately medical attention, call 911 if necessary. If I knew their shrink hot-line number perhaps get them in contact with the case worker.but I wouldn't just do nothing.

Answer 2

First of all, I would be very careful when approaching someone with this disorder. The reason that they tend to cut themselves is because they are trying to not feel a greater pain that they are feeling. To cause this type of pain to ones own self is the only way they know of to deal with something that is causing them to hurt even more then cutting ones self.
If you do decide to approach this situation do it with great caution and if you can get them to give you the blade or knife that they are cutting with.
but from what I know from a good friend of mine that used to do this very thing, I am told that they usually do this action when they are alone. not around other people..
but if you do come across them approach with great caution as you are in harms way also if they are holding a sharp object.
try to get them help when they are not doing the self inflicting damages.
when they are more calm and when you are able to approach them in a mode where they do not have a sharp instrument in their possession. try to get them help if possible, be understanding and loving. let them know how much you care and want to help them if at all possible..

Answer 3

"Cutting" results from a person not having appropriate coping mechanisms. I've dealt with this issue. It seems that it is related to low self esteem. It is very serious and can lead to suicide attempts.

First you would start by letting the person know that you know about the cutting. Let them know that you have an idea why that they would do it and tell them that it hurts you too. Don't be afraid to ask why.

Second you must, must build that person up. They need to know how much that they mean to others. Spend lots of time with them and encourage them to spend more time with friends.

Third, new coping strategies need to be developed for that person. Find a way to discuss concerns and solve problems. Immediate counseling is recommended.

Answer 4

I've been going through this with my nephew. He is very depressed and has been getting drunk and cutting and burning himself. I talked to him for hours about his feelings and what is going on with him to make him do these things. He really couldn't put it into words other than to say that when he cuts or burns himself, he can see his pain and it makes him know that he is alive. He finally went into a treatment center last week to get some help and I am so thankful. He is my best friend, not just my nephew and honestly he needed professional help. If you know someone who is doing this, be there for them but don't push for answers from them. Many times they don't know why or can't express how they feel inside. Just let them know how you feel about them and tell them you are there 24 hours a day if they need to talk. The best thing you could do is to try to get them some professional help.

Answer 5

I would talk to them, I would probably say something like "Why are you doing this to your self? There are so many other ways to relieve pain than this. What are you hurting from, what happend to you? " I would probably try really hard to agree to let me help them and get professional help. Whatever reason they are doing this , when they cut somehow it releases their pain, for others it would be like crying. Only they don't want to cry, they don't show much emotion, the cutting is a release for them, and someone has to introduce new ways to relieve pain and anger. Email me if you need to talk.

Answer 6

hi, I used to be a cutter. Not for many years but at a time in my life , when i would get overwhelmed or stressed or needed "release" this was my method, does it make sense no, but later in life i was diagnosed with bipolar, manic depressive disorder, as is my mother and her mother. It is a sickness. This person needs to seek medical attention and whatever way you yourself or as a friend can get this it is what has to be done. Maybe this person needs medication for a chemical disorder or knowledge of better coping skills.. this is a response to emotionally charged person. With help, it can be treated and hopefully stopped so please do not do nothing. I went to my regular medical dr, who referred me.. if your a friend tell a parent, or if your an adult , confront them, get them to open up and offer your support. good luck

Answer 7

If it were someone i cared about i would be very worried for their stability! Obviosly to self harm u have deep unresolved issues! wether they are rooting from child hood or recent events the best thing to do is ask for help not suffer alone in silence! if you have no one to confinde in their are plenty of places and people who are trained in that specific area and could reaaly help!

Answer 8

I would offer them a butter knife and tell them if they plan on doing this then the least they can do is put more effort into it.

Clearly they must want some attention anyway.

Answer 9

Run at the full force and tackle them. Then beat the crap out of them for fun. When the cops get there tell them you were trying to keep them from hurting themselves.

Answer 10

i think there crazy there are better ways to deal with stress