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My 19 year old son, who I hadn't seen in a year and a half, came down from NC to start his life over here. He stayed two weeks, declared he hated it here, and left yesterday to go back to NC.

First, I cried tears of joy to have him near me again, and now I'm crying tears of sadness that he's gone.........

This is not going to be a good week for me : (

2007-04-03 02:00:42 · 16 answers · asked by spun_up_06 4 in Entertainment & Music Polls & Surveys

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2007-04-03 02:03:34 · answer #1 · answered by luvbuggies 6 · 0 0

Our kids don't know what they're doing, they just can't fathom the depth and breadth of our caring for them. The self-centeredness at this time is too strong for empathy to surface. With any luck, he'll do some growing up out there in the world and be able to return to you in the future with a fuller heart and words of comfort. Really, as time passes we moms begin to hear things like, "now I understand", "you were right", "I couldn't see it back then", and things like that.
Take heart, he's ripe for maturing, and taking the step to leave home is a good thing, just unfortunate that it happened in such a painfully abrupt manner. Keep your heart and arms open, be his strength when he needs you. Make yourself firm and stable for those times, which will come.
I used to hate it when my pop would say, wistfully, "aw kids, when they're little they step on your toes, when they grow up they step on your heart." Truth does hurt sometimes, but the facts are the facts.
Take heart, mom. You're still the first and most important woman of influence in his life. Your ways have impact on him which he'll carry throughout his life. You've done the major part of your job, now you (as do I, and others) have the job of letting him go out on his own do apply his lessons.
So now we write letters and send cookies.
Have a star.

2007-04-03 02:18:34 · answer #2 · answered by Zeera 7 · 0 0

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2016-12-15 14:51:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

try to keep this in mind. He is only in NC. There are mother's who's sons were sent to Iraq with a very real chance of getting killed. Your boy is doing teenage dude things in NC. Be grateful and cry those tears of joy because he gets to be a young man.

2007-04-03 02:07:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

for me it's been going on for 5 years, thought she was gone again for good again this time, she called 6 hours ago @ 2am and i still can't get back to sleep

this time she has been gone for a month, btw I'm talking about my Ex gf

2007-04-03 02:07:46 · answer #5 · answered by seven_ms_man 4 · 0 0

arent kids just great at that? i know i have an 18 year old that makes me cry too? id say hes just trying to find himself,its a hard thing letting them go, dont take it personally, love him and support him the way im sure you do, and hang in there!

2007-04-03 02:07:46 · answer #6 · answered by imamom 3 · 1 0

Yes I have and it hurts very, very much. And it is guaranteed to happen again in your life. It's just a part of life. If you would like to talk and just vent to someone, I'll be more than happy to listen.

2007-04-03 02:06:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I haven't been in your situation but would like to say I'm very sorry that you have been through this situation. It must be very hard to deal with.

2007-04-03 02:08:10 · answer #8 · answered by friendly face 4 · 1 0

I'm sorry to hear that, it must be wrenching for you....I've been estranged from my son as well. We worked it out, but not nearly as well as I'd like....it hurts a lot I know...good luck to you!!

2007-04-03 02:07:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

im so sorry ur feeling this way i wish i could help! i havent felt that way yet but i will try my best 2 help u if u like. feel free 2 msg me

2007-04-03 02:11:27 · answer #10 · answered by blossom 3 · 0 0

The same thing happened to me a while back.

2007-04-03 02:06:04 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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