no matter how much i tried to satisfy my bf he forced me into bed.....he even blackmailed me emotionally.....i did everyhtign for him.....but just once i said no to him he abused me n said i m having affair with some1 else.......
he constanly lies to be..he cannot keep his contact low to girls......if i try to stop him he will make fake ids n chat with girls....he says they r his friends....but he dosent approve of me even talking to guys......
i feel stuck...i fell disgusted....he even has sex ids casuial sex ids...gives adds on yahoo question answer how to get gfs...n wht not
when i question him he says either tey r not his or theyu belong to his freinds....but all ids r connected to his official id.....so i know those ids belong to him..
i feel like i m in hell.....he is making all sort of excuses for not maryring me.........but he is not clearly saying it...but then he refuse n say tht he is not syaing no for marrige just he wants me to wait...wht should i do?
2007-04-03 00:46:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
If you can stop and think of a way in the world to get away from this guy for good, do so now. Do not give him another minute of your time. He has anger problems so think hard before you decide on a plan. Do this as if your life depended on it. Because it does.
2007-04-03 00:57:08 · answer #1 · answered by Dovey 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why in the world would you want to marry someone who treats you this way? Think about it....you said you feel stuck, imagine spending the rest of your life feeling this way. You are not trapped at all. You can walk away from this guy and then he can do all the disgusting things he's been doing without hurting you. Get out of this relationship. All men are not bastards, but the one you're with certainly is acting like one. You are single and free to do as you please. Start having a little more respect and love for yourself and don't let anyone use or abuse you this way. Trust me, I think you will be much happier alone than you are living like this, feeling disgusting, abused, worthless and belittled. Please don't even think about marrying someone like this. Marriage should be about a partnership where both people support each other and their goals, you should be each others best friend and support and do your best to make each other happy. This guy sounds like he's doing everything he can to control you and make you miserable. There are some good guys out there and you can find someone who will treat you with respect, love and compassion. I think you need to take some time to be yourself, hang out with friends and really think about what you want out of life and a relationship. The relationship you are in sounds totally one sided...he does what he wants, when he wants and whatever makes him happy without any thought about your feelings, wants and needs. That isn't a relationship. It is him using you. You have a life and you deserve to live it, have friends, and be happy. Think about it. Take care of yourself and don't let him drag you down for another day. I wish you the best and hope you find the strength and self worth to move on.
2007-04-03 01:41:34 · answer #2 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Julie honey, this "man" is a user and abuser.
DO NOT MARRY HIM
He will end up isolating you from the world, and quite possibly become physically abusive.
2007-04-03 01:00:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men are bastards. Alot of women only date bastards because they think these guys are tough, and that nice guys are sissies. Drop this assshole and stop dating bastards
2007-04-05 05:46:37 · answer #4 · answered by Dr.Cool 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First all men are not bastards just because you found a crappy one we are not all like this *** clown. I read about five lines and you need to drop this idiot like a hot potato. He is taking you for granted and as long as you let it continue it is nobodys fault but your own.
2007-04-03 00:56:48 · answer #5 · answered by rwd420247 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋