why women hates a player ?

Question

well i dont quite understand it, because most of these women knows what are they getting into, isnt it about equality nowdays ? what hate the player ?

Answer 1

There are several levels of "players".

The ones that are too obvious and easy to spot.

Then other levels of more sophisticated players. The ones in these categories, would do and say ANYTHING to take a woman to bed, even the "I love you". They would lie to achieve their objective. Yes, they will make the woman fall in love with them with false hopes, when the game is over, the woman is devastated.

It is because of the lies and deceives that I hate players and even when you confront them they treat you as if you are crazy.

Players are interested in power and yes they can be from both genders, but curiously male players are more common.

But there are also players in the workplace, I overheard once a colleague of mine talking to another about me, saying "Yes I am a player, and in no time I will have her on her knees", the good news is that I was in charge of the project, I never more worked with him....disgusting attitude!

Answer 2

"player" makes me think of a man who is playing games which means the women may not know what she is getting into. If the guy says he's a player and only interested in sex -- and the women agrees then there is no reason to hate.

Answer 3

Kind of a dumb question. Women (and men) who are mature and can give true love in a relationship do not want to be played with. What kind of ******** is unable to give and recieve love and caring from one person and gets off on "playing" others? What';s the benefit other than a sexual relationship with supposedly no strings. Is it not getting caught? Hurting others? maybe it's the idea of getting an STD or making a baby with someone you don't even love or want to be with? Wow, what a prize huh?

Answer 4

It's metaphorically like hanging with someone who lives only off of chocolate, donuts, cigarettes, alcohol, and milk shakes. Men say they don't like fat chicks ... well woman don't like men with fat personalities.

They have so much junk that they don't appreciate what is healthy for them. What for most ppl is a treat for them is their diet and their soul is fat and flabby. This makes it hard for them to truly identify quality through all the quantity they consume. In my diet example, who enjoys the "Chocolate Mouse" more, a skinny person who works at being skinny or a fat person who has at least 5 "Chocolate Mouses" a day? I would bet the skinny person moans more than the fat person over the chocolate.

So over all the player is self destructive, over consuming, ungreateful, and wreckless. Yes, I have not touched the STD's like herpies, Aid's, or crabs. They speak 4 themselves.

Answer 5

when women play around they're called sluts and whores, yet men are more likely to be praised which is not equal. For women who go for players, some just want a fling but others want to be the one to "change" him others just don't know that the guy plays women.

Answer 6

Hey man what do you think? If your girlfriend is a player, will you be happy?
Forget about equality in this case. It is about the person's feelings.

Answer 7

You are referring to women who fall for the player talking of women "who know what they are getting into". I assume they hat themselfs for letting their **** do the thiking and project it on tha player.

Answer 8

Women typically like men who will stick around.

Answer 9

A woman hate 'players' because they know that he will offer a low value for her sexuality.

As sexuality is a woman's primary source of power, men who offer little for it are dangerous.

Answer 10

because most women are looking for a relationship instead of just a one night stand.