What do I do?

Question

My ex-girlfriend & I split up over a month ago.We were under a lot of stress from other things,& she finished with me because of it. Now everything's fine. The other day,we went out for a drink,& spoke for nearly 4 hours! She said she feels guilty for finishing,doesn't want2get back together,yet does want to spend time with me...and just see where the friendship goes...then she says maybe i can come over and we watch a dvd/have lunch etc on friday..i've said yes. The thing is, I want more from her,& am confused as I dont think she does from me, although she wasnt really clear! What do I do, do I still go,& is it worth me saying/trying anything? I feel like trying to kiss her or something! She says she doesnt want to lead me on!

Am I being taken for a ride, any advice in this situation? My head is so confused, and every time I look at her, I just want her back, but I don't know what to do?

Answer 1

Quite frankly you can't have a half relationship and sounds like she's the one who is confused.

If you want to be more then just friends then I think you should tell her that. If she doesn't want more, its a risk you have to take that you stop seeing all together. It would never work as a friendship in the first place if you have feelings for her unless you both agree the relationship is going nowhere and BOTH want to be friends.

It sounds like you are letting her decide for everything. She made the decision to break, now she decides to get back to together oh but nothing serious this time. So does that mean you guys are open to other relationships?? What have you decided???

Before you try anything with her, i really think you should tell want you want from her. And also be prepared to know what you would do if she said "no". Are you willing to stop seeing her all together? Or just be more and more confused.

Answer 2

I think I answered this same question yesterday. Is this a repost or am I crazy?

Answer 3

Tell her what you think.