2007-04-02 20:29:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Heh. Everything.
But mostly when they don't respect or support the work that I have to and want to do and get pissed when I "won't spend enough time with them" screwing around watching movies and lying in bed all day. And tell me that if I need my own space, I don't love them enough. So annoying.
2007-04-03 04:35:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's what makes US nuts:
If you think all men are pigs, expect to live alone when you get older.
If you have 100 reasons to reject a man, expect to live alone when you get older.
Prince Charming is gay.
Rich, attractive, nice - you can only have two in a man.
If you ask a man on a first date how much he earns or what kind of car he drives, he gets to look at your bare breasts while you are still in the restaurant.
If you answer your cell phone during a first date, he has the right to immediately get up and leave with no explanation.
Choosey and "stuck up" are closely related.
At 40, single "Rules Girls" (see the book written by Fein & Schneider) become single, lonely women.
If you expect a man to pay for everything, you'll need a strong jaw and a good tongue.
Perfect men don't exist. Good men are everywhere.
It's OK not to want kids. It's not OK to sacrifice your personal life and personal goals for your career.
The kharmic retribution for putting good men into the "Friend Zone" while getting hurt by bad boys is to become bitter, angry, and the owner of at least three cats.
You are not a princess no matter what your T-Shirt states. If you really think you are a princess, then you'd better have the body of a stripper, the face of an angel, and the personality of a saint. Even so, only Prince Charming can marry a princess and Prince Charming is gay.
Your single girlfriends don't want you to have a happy relationship with a man. Consider this when listening to their advice.
A man won't say "I love you" until he is 100% confident that you won't use this against him. This might take years, be patient because men can be sensitive, too.
Taking the time to look your best is not optional. After all, if you can catch his eye then you can catch his heart. Being agreeable, pleasant, and happy will seal the deal.
Smiles and laughter are contagious and can melt any man's heart.
The unintended consequence of independence is loneliness.
There is a fine line between expecting that a man pay for everything and being a common prostitute.
Excessive complaining is neither attractive nor polite.
You are entitled to nothing. However, you can expect rewards for working hard for something.
Before you say "it's all his fault" after a bad date, look closely in the mirror.
It's not always men making you unhappy. Don't let bitter women convince you of that.
Being strong doesn't mean being bitchy. Southern women have known this for generations.
You can't have it all. Please have the good sense to realize this.
What you call "settling" is actually called "compromise". It's what emotionally healthy people do in normal relations. It's also why you're having problems landing a man.
Don't expect men to fall all over you just because you are a woman. Feminism taught men to be independent, too.
There's nothing wrong with looking feminine.
If he doesn't call you back, it means he's just not really into you. Deal with it.
If you meet a man, don't find reasons to reject him or things to change in him. Find reasons to accept him and respect him.
"As if" and "whatever" are immature insults used by 12 year olds, not intelligent young women.
The common word in "drink whore", "dinner whore", and "attention whore" is still whore.
Sorry girl, it's NOT all about you so you can change your T-Shirt now.
Many men would rather chase women, not girls.
Given the current state of divorce laws, don't expect any man to marry you. It's not you, it's just how things are right now. If you're truly sincere about marriage, sign the pre-nup.
Hanging around gay men won't give you any useful insights about straight men. Frankly, hanging around gay men is just creepy.
"No fat chicks" is the man's version of "If you're rich, I'm single".
Winning a man is easy, keeping a man requires hard work.
Advertising "*****" on your T-Shirt or sweatpants won't get you any dates. Single men don't care for that attitude.
Deferring self-gratification is a sign of maturity. You can wait until dinner even if you're hungry now.
The real world is pushy, rude, and often unpleasant. That doesn't mean you have to be the same way.
If you dress to get sexual attention, expect to receive sexual attention. And not from the guys you want.
2007-04-03 04:37:06 · answer #2 · answered by radames 2 · 5⤊ 4⤋
I choose men very very carefully and have only ever loved three men in 41 years. In my own experience, the only thing that I really can't stand is being taken advantage of. I'm very easy to get along with and don't complain or nag, so sometimes I get stepped on and that turns me right off and kills love for me.
2007-04-03 11:30:13 · answer #3 · answered by Dovie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When we're watching TV and someone like Cameron Dias, Beyonce, Jennifer Lopaz, or Lucy Lu comes on and they say, "She's ugly", "She's Hot", "Big Butt", or "Old".
WTF! It's like they all think they're judges of a beauty pagent, and you know they'd be dropping to their knees if any one of these women gave them the time of day. Even the good guys I know seem to do this. It's a hope crusher 4 sure.
2007-04-03 10:58:19 · answer #4 · answered by Giggly Giraffe 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Insecurity, immaturity and clinginess.
Those are the things that I've encountered that MURDER a relationship.
2007-04-03 03:36:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
When he asks me to his appartment to see his stamp collection.... and he actually DOES have one!
2007-04-03 13:25:54 · answer #6 · answered by K 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
not so sincere...."love" especially when it comes to this word.
also, when they get lazy and let you do everything for them.
2007-04-03 11:01:53 · answer #7 · answered by capricornmice 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
his nuts
2007-04-03 06:28:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋