Women only: "Period talk"...I need some advice.?

Question

Im a little scared to talk to my mom about this. Ok so Im 18 years old. I get my period every 4-6 months at the least. When I do get it, its super heavy. For the past few years, the cramps have been tolerable. But every now and then they are so awful that Ive actually blacked out/fainted and it feels like my face is burning off (yes its pretty bad). I went to the doctor once for this when I was like.....15, She offered to give me birth control pills to stop my periods, but my mom says this will affect me later in life when I want to have kids. I have no clue what to do in this situation. I literally am afraid of getting my period and randomly passing out somewhere, plus my periods are so irregular its weird. Anyone have any suggestions or any tips on what I can do???? It would be really helpful, thanks!

Answer 1

You poor thing - that sounds horrible.

Your periods are extreme enough to cause some major health issues for you and you need some impartial medical advice.

Birth control pills do NOT affect your fertility nor your chances at having a baby later in life.
They will be likely to give you regular periods - to reduce your pain and amount of bleeding.

I would suggest that you have a full check up anyhow. It does not sound normal to have such excruciating periods nor so irregular. It may be that you have some hormone issues that can easily be fixed. Maybe something else is going on that is causing you such terrible pain- (i dont mean anything sinister) A blood test may also be helpful to see if the amount of loss is affecting your health - you may be low in iron (anaemic)

I don't think it is fair that you have to live in fear of getting them at any old time and passing out.

Go and talk to an RN or at a Womens Clinic where they can give you a proper check up - give you sensible advice and let you know what your options are.

Answer 2

You need a gynecologist. You need to rule out forms of cancer and to be checked for Endometriosis.

Birth Control pills are the first thing used to defend against Endometriosis. Having your periods on a regular basis may prevent the excessive bleeding you have been experiencing.

My daughter tried the B.C. shots to prevent her from having any periods because the pain was interrupting her schooling. This resulted in a loss of calcium which is needed for the body to flush out fat ... so after 6 month and gaining too much waist line she went back to the oral birth control.

It all depends on where the growth of cells are attaching to what part of the uterus or tubes. I learned this from a friend who lived with it. Main thing is, don't wait too long to find out.

It's time to talk to your mother ... and if she never suffered, she will probably not understand. I didn't till I read it. But, I'm sure she will understand if some day she wants to hold a grandchild.

Answer 3

I would recommend going back to the doctor. Most birth control does not stop your period entirely, it only regulates it.... Although taking birth control can make it initially harder to get pregnant when you want to, it's effects are almost never permanent. Some people can get pregnant right away, but some have to be off the pill for 6 months to a year. I definitely think it would be worth a delay though, it sounds like it can be dangerous when you get your period!

Answer 4

Return to the doctor. Birth control pills are a good way of regulating when and how long the period will be. The doseage of hormone used is much less than a few years ago so affecting future pregnancy isn't the concern that it used to be. There is also medication available to lessen the pain of cramps. Heavy periods can also lower your level of hemoglobin in the blood so she/he can check your blood too. If you have anemia, that could cause fainting/weakness.

Answer 5

First off, birth control pills don't stop your period, they just regulate it. I would see your doctor and talk about non-birth control options. If your doctor will offer you nothing, then get a new doctor. There are several other options to both a)regulate your period and b) to make it tolerable. I would not recommend birth control. There are MANY side effects, some more serious than others:

Weight gain
Increase or decrease in acne
Nausea and vomiting (particularly for the first few cycles)
Dizziness
Headaches
Depression
Vaginal infections
High blood pressure
Loss of libido
Blood clots in legs, lungs, heart or brain
Stroke
Liver tumors (rare)
Heart attacks
Gallstones (rare)
Jaundice (rare)
Possibly cervical cancer
Ectopic pregnancy
Certain cancers
Spotting and irregular vaginal bleeding
Longer periods
Amenorrhea for extend periods
Headaches
Anxiety and nervousness
Pain in lower abdominals
Dizziness
Loss of libido
Depression
Increase or decrease in acne
Skin rash or darkened patches of skin
Appetite changes
Weight gain
Tender breasts
Increase or decrease in facial and body hair
Possibly hair loss
Vaginal discharge
Bone density loss
Enlarged ovarian follicles
Pain or itching (usually for a brief period of time)
Decrease in fertility and in rare cases, infertility

Talk to your doctor and let them know you need help. If you want to try the pill, you may, but beware of side effects! I really hope you get your periods under control! Good Luck.

Answer 6

Do you mean weeks not months? If you are only getting your period every 4-6 MONTHS you are having trouble and need to see a doctor. Y r u scared to talk to your mom? She will probably try to comfort you then tell you to see a dr. Good luck!

Answer 7

You shouldn't be scared to talk to your mom about this. 4 - 6 months is a long time to not have a period. Does your family have a history of endometriosis? It's just something to throw out there, I'm not saying you have it, but it's a condition often overlooked. Please check out the link.

Answer 8

It all depends on the birth control pills you choose to use, I think you should talk to your doctor and make a decision for yourself, You can always research what is available for you, You really need to talk to your doctor about this, your mom may just be worried about never having grandkids but right now your health is more important.

Answer 9

Well if you're nervous to talk to your mom about it...you should locate your nearest planned parenthood...since u are 18 and legal..you could just go in for a consultation...and get their advice about your irregular period and the hurtful cramps...b/c like you..i get cramps just as bad..and i didn't want to go on birth control either...my gyno suggested aleve...but as for the fainting..i'm sorry i can't help

Answer 10

first off you said every 4-6 mths did you mean weeks? if it is mths then you should definiately be going to a dr asap! if you did mean weeks, then thats different, but normally it should be i time a mth-withthe kind of pain you say you are having please see a dr anyway-something could be very wrong-but at the least they can give you something to help your pain so you dont have to suffer like that-as far as the pill -aside from all the ide effects they warn us about -it will not mess you up later in life-when you want to have kids you just need to be off it for awhile-i hope you can go tothe dr soon