A girl who I work with threatened me today and told me she'd kick me in the b**** if I touched the back of her neck (she has a funny reaction when you do it.) Anyway she said this to me but a bunch of other guys do it to her all the time ( in fact a few times today) and she just thinks it's funny. She literally flipped out on me. Why would she be such a hypocrite? She then asked me to apologize. Which I didn't, as I feel I had nothing to apologize for.Whats the deal?
2007-04-02 14:08:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I tired asking her but all she says is"Because I said so"
2007-04-02 14:16:36 · update #1
opps *tried
2007-04-02 14:16:52 · update #2
I'm 21 and she's 24.... maybe I'm ugly.. I don't know...
2007-04-02 14:17:47 · update #3
Well, see that the thing she constantly slaps my rear and I just ignore it.
2007-04-02 14:21:56 · update #4
well I tried calling her but no pickup so I text messaged her
2007-04-02 14:25:05 · update #5
No one should be touching anyone at work...If she tells you not to touch her than dont, you could get fired...You do need to apologize, this way she doesn't file sexual harassment charges on you...
2007-04-02 14:20:01 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First you should apologize as you should not have touched her even if others do. You don't have that right, and she is correct in how she feels.
Second she is not being hypocritical because some can do that and you can't. Everyone has a person space and they have the right to allow some in and other not.
Just because a women allows a man to have sex with her doesn't mean anyone else can...see the point? It works the same way.
This goes for men as well as women, you were wrong and I would not only apologize but keep away from her too.
2007-04-02 14:17:06 · answer #2 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think that for whatever reason she does not like you. It could be something she heard, maybe something she knows that you are not aware of. Anyway, if you really want to know, and if you can take whatever she may tell you, just ask flat out in a polite way if she has something against you, and use examples of why you think so. She may just tell you. Or she might curse you the hell out if she is a real *****. Take a chance.
2007-04-02 14:17:16 · answer #3 · answered by Lanalyee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is being a typical woman. Change the rules and not tell you. However, perhaps she wants the attention from a "higher-up" and you don't make enough money to her liking.Maybe she's a golddigger and your a nice guy who doesn't make enough.
2007-04-02 14:15:03 · answer #4 · answered by acedelux 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe because you're ugly and she doesn't want you touching her. I'm not sure if that's the case, but I don't like it when old guys or ugly guys flirt with me.
2007-04-02 14:15:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mayb she dont like who or it could b the way you do it who knows askher!
2007-04-02 14:14:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont ask us, ask HER! talk to her about it and bring it to ur attention as to how your feeling...
(she has a funny reaction when you do it.) theres your answer right there, do u make fun of her "reaction"?
2007-04-02 14:13:53 · answer #7 · answered by Killed_Nemo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋