since we found out we were having our 3rd child. my hubby won't have sex or couddle with me. is their something wrong with me. or is it him. what can i do to get him to couddle or have sex with me. he was in the mood yesterday. but all he wanted me to do was give him a bj. but i wanted sex. whats wrong.
2007-04-02 13:31:13 · 11 answers · asked by lisaanndubay 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Mine was the same in my last pregnancy if he touch me twice a month at the most and all he said is nothing is happening I tought that he was being unfaithfull for me or something but as far as I know that was all my inmagination as soon as i gave birth he was all over me and then i was the one with no interest with two kids and breastfeeding i dont even have time for me so sex was the last thing in my mind. My adviced will be to talk to him and follow our instinct.
2007-04-02 14:48:27 · answer #1 · answered by user 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His nerves are probably the problem. You know raising children is expensive and he might be worried about $$$$. I don't know your situation but that would be my concern and also if you had trouble with your last pregnancy that might be the trouble to. I would say it's mostly his nerves and what he has going on in his head.
Just try to talk to him and see what is troubling him. He'll probably say nothing, but just remember you both are going through a life changing event. You might also want to ask his best friends wife if her husband has said anything.
2007-04-02 20:38:35 · answer #2 · answered by speedi4got 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is something you should ask your husband. There;s no telling whats going on with him, so just sit down and talk to him about it. You are on your 3rd child. You two should be able to talk about anything. I hope things get better between you.
2007-04-02 20:35:59 · answer #3 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry lady, he probably doesn't want to bounce your belly around.
Also, there is something too weird about having your weiner in such close proximity to your unborn child. What if the baby reaches out and grabs it! That would not be cool.
2007-04-02 20:50:34 · answer #4 · answered by Joe B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is really something that you need to be talking to your husband about..
Have a wonderful evening!
2007-04-02 23:13:49 · answer #5 · answered by arkiegirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only he can answer that for you. Talk to him, ask him what is wrong and explain how you feel.
2007-04-02 20:37:26 · answer #6 · answered by QT 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think it could be stress becouse your pregnant.maybe you should talk about it with him.some guys dont think a pregnant woman is sexy.me personally i think a woman glows when she is pregnant.thanks for letting me answer your question
2007-04-02 21:01:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First step to take would be to discuss it with him.
2007-04-02 20:48:37 · answer #8 · answered by kenneth h 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump his asss
2007-04-02 20:51:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him and tell him how you feel.
2007-04-02 20:50:21 · answer #10 · answered by jasmine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋