Since you've posted several similar questions in the past, I'll assume, like Leah did, that you were in a domestic discipline relationship. Excusing yourself from your company long enough to have a few quick words of warning to her should normally suffice in vanilla company. If she knows that her behavior has gotten your attention and that there'll be more than words exchanged once company is gone, then she'll likely straighten up for the rest of the night. If you promise her a spanking, though, be consistent and GIVE HER ONE! Don't change your mind later, or she'll lose respect in you. Yes, contrary to what a lot of the small-minded answers would have you believe, a domestic discipline relationship is based on mutual respect. A person, male or female, must respect and be respected in any relationship, and that is also true of domestic discipline and other spanking relationships.
Now, if your company knows about your relationship, or are like-minded, then don't hesitate to spank your wife while they're still present. However, in such a case, the belt would likely be a bit extreme for the eyes of others, even if it's what your and your ex-wife normally associated with discipline.
2007-04-02 13:21:09
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answered by baka_otaku30 5
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In all honesty when you use the words discipline, brat, go to your room and spanking when referring to a spouse leads me to understand why you may no longer be married. I discipline my children when they are acting like brats and i do not need a belt to do it. I have an adult conversation IN PRIVATE with my wife when she is acting in a way that bothers me or is embarrassing. The best advise i can give you is in the form of this question, how would you like your wife to approach you if the circumstance was reversed? TO EARN RESPECT YOU MUST GIVE RESPECT.
2007-04-02 10:28:02
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answered by shockme 1
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Sandstorm, you really like getting people all riled up, don't you? Seriously, the thing to do would be to give her a pre-emptive spanking to remind her to behave. Then if she still didn't, maybe you should have considered more frequent maintenance. If she liked to be spanked, maybe you should have tried other punishments like writing lines or grounding. For whatever reason, it sounds like her heart was not in the right place and no amount of discipline would have fixed that, I'm afraid.
2007-04-02 12:25:15
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answered by Anonymous
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If you want a serious response, here goes:
A marriage is not a parent - child relationship. Ideally, it is a covenant partnership between peers. Yes, men and women are wired up differently. Yes they have different strengths and weaknesses. But they are peers - equals - and unless you wife routinely disciplines you for your bad behavior, I would suggest you have no basis for spanking and disciplining your wife for what you may deem as unacceptable behavior.
If your question is not posted "tongue in cheek" but you're quite serious that this was the roles established in your previous marriage, it comes as no surprise to me you're currently unmarried. It falls so far afield from my understanding of healthy roles in marriage we have little or no common ground upon which to discuss acceptable and healthy behavior.
Best to you.
2007-04-02 10:15:27
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answered by Timothy W 5
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Jeez, I wonder why you are not married right now?
Did you discipline your ex-wife on a regular basis by sending her to her room or spanking her?
To answer your question, a time out probably will not work so you might try pistol-whipping her.
2007-04-02 10:18:13
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answered by Anonymous
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First of all you should not be hitting any person with a belt!
You should tell her before you have company over that you want her to behave. You are both adults and should treat each other as such, so be civil and also be kind.
2007-04-02 10:13:34
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answered by Anonymous
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You must be kidding.
With or without company, you DO NOT whip your wife with a belt. You do not hit your wife at all. If I was her, I would sue you for everything you've got.
O_O
2007-04-02 10:18:07
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answered by Crackah™ 3
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I think you needed to have married someone you considered an equal, not an unruly child. You need someone you can respect, and she obviously wasn't it, and it's best that you're not with her. If you're with somebody, you shouldn't be worried about 'disciplining' them. Geez. You talk like she's a pet! Find an ADULT that you can talk on a par with next time.
2007-04-02 10:13:31
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answered by gilgamesh 6
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Is this a joke?! You don't "discipline" your wife, ******! She's not a child. She's an adult who is responsible for herself and can make her own decisions about how to act. No wonder, you're not married anymore.
And by the way, I hope you don't have any children, cuz you shouldn't be hitting them with a belt either.
2007-04-02 10:14:50
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answered by Gummybear 3
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Give her "the look" only and wait until company has left to discuss the matter. That's a proper way to deal with the situation in western culture, I suppose other cultures use a different approach.
In the meantime, if her behavior is embarrassing or intolerable, simply excuse yourselves to another room for a brief discussion. Regardless, NO FIGHTING in front of company.
2007-04-02 10:13:04
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answered by ©2009 7
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