If I go out to dinner w/ a guy at an expensive restaurant..and he pays..does that mean i owe him anything?

Answer 1

You owe him kindness and consideration and a "thank you". Beyond that.... anything you want to 'give' him is totally up to you.

Answer 2

You owe him polite conversation and ''maybe'' a kiss goodnight, but that's up to you. You most certainly DO NOT owe him sex if that's what you were wondering. Be up front with him so his hopes don't get squashed. The evening will go better if he knows there will be no sex involved. His mood will be more polite and less suggestive. There is often an awkwardness between two people on a first date. As a way of being polite and relieving tension I usually kiss the girl on the cheek when I meet her. Then I say, ''Now that the first kiss is out of the way we can enjoy our evening.'' That may sound a bit corny but it's an ice breaker. Men should know not to suggest sex on a first date but many do. Work something into the conversation, when you two are having dinner, which will let him know where you stand. I had one girl ask me if I knew so-and-so. Of course I didn't and I'm sure she knew that. Then she said she had an awful date with him. Then she said, and I quote, ''He expected sex on the first date. Can you believe that?'' By doing this I understood exactly where I stood and the evening was much more enjoyable.

Answer 3

"Owe?" No, not really. Did he invite you? If you invited him, then you should've offered to pay, or at least to split it. If he invited you, then generally he pays, and you don't "owe" him anything.

Except a thankful gesture. Once a girl sent me flowers after I took her out to a ritzy dinner. Nice, but a little more than I might expect. It would be appropriate for you to call him, either that night or the next day, and thank him; tell him what a nice time you had, and how/why you enjoyed yourself. "It was nice talking to you about ______ ." "I enjoyed the [band] [dessert] [company] [filet mignon]."

If you mean s - e - x , definitely not!

You might want to reciprocate and invite him somewhere, as your treat, unless your situation doesn't let you afford it.

Answer 4

All you owe him is a little appreciation that he regards you highly enough to buy you dinner. So I guess yes-you owe him gratitude, but nothing else. That's all up to you.

Answer 5

Of course not unless you asked to go to that restaurant or were leading him on. I would always let the restaurant quality tell the story on how I felt about someone. Some guys do let that tell how bad they want to sleep with someone. I think if this is his purpose, he deserves not to get anything.

Answer 6

If he invited you, it would be proper etiquette for him to be responsible for the cheque. A real gentleman would never let a guest pay, regardless if he invited the guest or if he is the guest. Just to be safe, don't assume anything, take enough money with you to be able to pay for your own dinner, and a cab ride home if you need a ride. And if you mean 'do you have to sleep with him', you can do what ever you want, you're not obligated to do anything.

Answer 7

Did he ask you to dinner? If he did he pays and you owe nothing. If he gets ugly go dutch then tell him to go away.

Answer 8

Not really. If he invited you to go out with him, and insisted on paying for the meal, then you don't owe him anything.

Answer 9

If he invited you ,it was his choice,no you don,t owe him anything,if you had a good time just say thank you for inviting me to this wonderfull restaurant.

Answer 10

No you do not owe him anything, other than perhaps the pleasure of your company for the dinner time together.