Mine was should i turn off my Dads life support .
2007-04-02 09:43:40 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Your decision must have been very difficult to make.
The hardest decision I have had to make was Do I tell my wife that the doctors told me that they could not do anything for her, I was told this on the Friday before she died on the Monday, she was suffering from cancer. That was in Aug 05.
I didn't tell her, I still don't know if I made the right decision or not. It troubles me greatly everyday & I still have sleepness nights over it. I tell her I love her & apologise to her everyday.
2007-04-02 21:55:47 · answer #1 · answered by wayforwardhow 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow, the decision about your Dad must have been hard. I have a statement in my will that says to turn off mine if I am brain impaired beyond help or brain dead. Were I your Dad, I know I would be very grateful to you for such a courageous decision. God bless you.
My toughest decision ever was to forgive my husband of 20 years for getting up one morning and saying ~~~ "I don't want to be a husband, I don't want to be a father, I'm just going to go out and have some fun" ~~~ and he did, just up and walked out.
It took me two years to forgive the hurt and the betrayal I felt.
I was very glad I did forgive because it made me feel much better. I just chalked it up to male menopause and let all of the pain ride away on the wind.
2007-04-02 10:30:56 · answer #2 · answered by scottyusa1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The hardest decision that I have had to make was whether or not to leave the mission field. My family had done missions work in Indonesia for 4 years and I was the one who decided to leave. I still sometimes overwhelmed by this decision, wish that I could go back.
2007-04-02 09:47:30 · answer #3 · answered by Sweet_Addy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry about your dad that was hard.
Mine was letting my severly autistic son go into a residential special school. Being a single parent I couldnt manage his behavior day and night without support. It wasnt until I had a breakdown that I accepted help. Now when he comes home I more physically and mentally able to cope with any challenges.
2007-04-02 09:52:47 · answer #4 · answered by kez29 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh you poor thing, I had to make a decision similar when mum was really ill. I decided on no intervention. She regained consciousness and lived for another 3 months then I had the same decision and Mum died. I never regretted either decision.
2007-04-02 09:49:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The hardest thing I have ever had to do is to put all my feelings aside and have the dog put to sleep,that was on the 12th Jan 07 old age and illness crept up on him.Still get a tear in my eye.
2007-04-02 11:22:45 · answer #6 · answered by Jiggles 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had a friend whose cancer made him say and do things againest his wife and children.I knew that was not him,it was the cancer.I had to testify about things he said to freeze the estate so he couldnt divorce his wife and kids.He died 2 weeks later.That was 5 years ago and I still think of him at least once a week.
2007-04-02 09:48:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
My hardest decision doesn't even compare to yours. I'm sorry about your dad
2007-04-02 09:50:00 · answer #8 · answered by The girl next door 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whether to move lock stock and barrel from the U.K. to Spain. We did move and I've had no regrets. My hard decision seems very insignificant up to the one you have had to make. I'm glad I've never had to make such a decision as yours.
2007-04-02 09:48:18 · answer #9 · answered by JillPinky 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
running away from home and england and everything Id ever know for my kids sake it was actually an easy desision no ifs and buts but soo so the hardest thing ive ever done!!xxx
2007-04-02 12:47:36 · answer #10 · answered by nendlin 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋