I asked a question called:*-I need more advice!!!-* awhile ago.
I took all of your guys' great advice. My friends have been telling me, pretty much the same things! Thanks for all your help, but I have a new problem with the SAME guy! Our friendship has gotten MUCCHHH better! I'm so happy. It's almost like it used to be- minus all the flirting! But...I'm realizing that I kinda still like him. :/ He has a girlfriend, but she doesn't treat him well, at all! I feel so bad for him. His girlfriend flirts with this other guy RIGHT IN FRONT OF HIM! And you can totally see it makes him upset. I think she LIKES to make him mad, which isn't right. I really care about this guy...and well, I know this sounds selfish, but I WANT HIM! When I first liked him, I liked him for over 3 months, in a row. My best friend says he'll get sick of his gf son enough...but do you think I can get another chance with him?? Goshh I hope so. :/ HELP!
2007-04-02 09:39:44 · 4 answers · asked by Abby 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Of course you will get another chance, but why wait? Start talking to him now, let him know you are out there. Don't bad mouth her, just become his friend and he will come to you when the time is right. Small talk, personal talk and small complements will get him moving in the right direction.
2007-04-02 09:44:48 · answer #1 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't leap to fast there, sweetie, do not rush things, be a friend to this guy first, then if things don't pan out with his girlfriend, then you can catch him when he falls!
It sounds like you really want this relationship over with your friend and this girl, I can understand you "want" him, but do me a favor and be a friend first and see where all of this is going with him and this girl.
Just be a friend and be there for him, it sounds like he needs a friend a whole lot more than he needs another girlfriend right now, and after he is done with this relationship that he is in now, think about it if he really wants to be in another relationship right away?
2007-04-02 09:48:13 · answer #2 · answered by carriegreen13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should talk to him about his girlfriend and what she does. If he feels like he can take your advice on the situation then things might go better. Take a deep breath and calm down. Things will work out the way you want them to sooner or later.
2007-04-02 09:46:20 · answer #3 · answered by Danielle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront him with your feelings...maybe he'll leave her for you!
2007-04-02 09:43:40 · answer #4 · answered by Destinee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋