Do you hold onto a 'Grudge" or are you actually able to allow it to go????

Question

I am NOT a Judge or Jury..the floor is yours..i have seen this as a "PHASE" in some, or in fact many...How about you????

Answer 1

depends... I try letting it go as much as I can. I find life much pleasant when i do not hold any "Grudge." But, there is one thing that I have been trying to let go for over five years now. I tried and tried and ... but in vain. "grudge" is still very present. There's got to be a reason as to why this sticks to me for so long. I guess I need to understand it in order to let it go.

Answer 2

I don't hold grudges. But some things take longer than others to get over. You know what I mean?

Answer 3

I try not to hold a grudge against anyone. Forgive and forget!

Answer 4

One. Someone once posed as a family friend (like an uncle) and ended up groping my daughter when she was eleven. He was a retired cop no less. They do indeed take care of their own. Everyday I read the obituaries hoping to see that rotten bastard's name!

Answer 5

I let it go, life is too short to hold a grudge.

Answer 6

I hold grudges for the longest time. I know its not healthy, but I can't help it. I don't forgive easily

Answer 7

I do tend to hold grudges way to long

Answer 8

I suppose I do somewhat. Good book says I shouldn't but there are things in the past that just will not go away.

Answer 9

I never hold a grudge. they shed terribly. seriously, no, I don't hold grudges. it's counterproductive.

Answer 10

for some reason some things i cant let go of...it depends really on what the damn person did to me! :(