My problem, is these few days alot has happened , and that is confusing me cause now, I do not know which to pick, or why.... so please help me with this - given below:
1st guy: Ive said no to him the two times he has asked me out - once in december and once in Jan. But, On Saturday night - while this good friend of mine was driving me back home, we got to talking and I ended up confessing my feelings for him, and since he is at a bad place with his girl he also said that he wishes I'd have said yes to him cause he would have been happier, and I said I just might have and that I still do have feelings for him, at this point of time, and then before I left - I pecked him good night -
Okay now today -
2nd guy - last week we had a presentation after which we spend the whole day together - just hanging out - and I guess in a way we just connected and had fun... Today we saw eachother at uni. we waved to eachother and carried on, I sms'ed him sayin hi - he asked me out to a movie
2007-04-02 08:59:49 · 9 answers · asked by Franky 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
told him, sounds nice - call tomorrow we will fix up... I've had a thing for this guy for a year - ever since uni started. He may be asking me as a friend.
the 1st guy also has not sms'ed me or called me - ever since saturday night...
Please advice and tell me what I should do.....
Who would you choose to date? What do i do abt the 1sdt guy?
which is the best option??
advice please.../. Thanks
2007-04-02 09:00:34 · update #1
Forget the first guy. It sounds like there is more baggage with him. You don't need all the drama of the problems with his girl. You should pick the other guy. Here is a tip for you. If you said no to a guy more than once about going out, stick with those instincts and move on. The second guy is the one you should hook up with. He sounds more fun and no attachments. Thank you.
2007-04-02 09:13:50 · answer #1 · answered by cookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple question: Is guy 1 still with his girl? If so, he should figure out what he wants to do with her first, before he is saying all this to you. The guy might like you, but he needs to be fair to the other girl and dump her. He shouldn't be so conniving as to finding another girl on the side.
I'd go with Guy 2, no strings attached -hopefully!
2007-04-02 09:04:52 · answer #2 · answered by January 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The 1st guy w/the girlfriend is like a married man who says he's going to divorce his wife and doesn't. Go out with the second guy; you both clicked and had a great time together.
2007-04-02 09:09:54 · answer #3 · answered by karma 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don’t think it is generally considered socially inappropriate to date two men at once.
But being a guy, my advice is get a male friend to tell you what their angle is. For some reason women are just blind to what men are really like, but most men see through other men like glass when it comes to their attitudes towards women.
2007-04-02 09:47:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're not in a relationship, there is no harm in going out on two dates. neither of you are exclusive and i dont see why you have to choose. go on a date with both of them, and continue it with one, both, or neither of them. the only time u really have to choose is when it starts to become an actual relationship.
so overall, i'd say test the waters and if you like both guys, give them each an oppurtunity. you're not doing anything wrong by going on two dates with two different people. its completely acceptable.
2007-04-02 09:09:54 · answer #5 · answered by bluekornfarmer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guy #2
2007-04-02 09:44:58 · answer #6 · answered by storm_in_teacup 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guy # 2 .... why go with guy #1 if he already has a girl friend , happy or not hes still with her. sometime we want things we cant have ... if anything with guy #2 you might have made a new friend...
2007-04-02 09:14:30 · answer #7 · answered by just a mommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think door number 2 is your best choice.
2007-04-02 09:07:02 · answer #8 · answered by Tom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask the the girlfriend what she thinks!!!!
2007-04-02 16:06:29 · answer #9 · answered by whats.the.deal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋