my friend likes this guy. i kinda like him too but she doesnt know it. he asked me out today and i dont if i should say yes cause i dont want her to hate me but at the same time i really want to go out with him
Any suggestion?????
2007-04-02 08:31:42 · 12 answers · asked by the one and only 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
YH IN HER FACE
2007-04-02 08:35:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in that type of situation before, and it is hard. I would sit down with her and talk about that situation. I know you don't want to hurt her feelings, but it is best to be honest. You don't want her to find out from someone else that you like the same guy. It is best to be upfront and honest, so you won't lose your friendship. If she is your true friend you'll will work it out. Guys come and go but true friends lasst forever!!!!!!!!!!
2007-04-02 18:26:11 · answer #2 · answered by angela h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your friend likes him why didn't she ask him out? You have to tell her that you like him too and that he asked you out. She will ignore you for that but it's her loss because she was not the one the guy asked and she wasn't moving on him enough. I can only tell you what i think but you have to decide this.
Good Luck!
God Speed!
2007-04-02 15:37:24 · answer #3 · answered by heavydeezy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahahaha i was in the same situation too. this guy i went out with for like 3 months and i still love him to death. well me n my frend both liked him n she didnt know i liked him too. so i said yeah to going out with him.
she wuz furious. but after a while she cooled down and realized she hates him. say yes if you really want to. but dont tell anyone else first. tell your frend first and explain evrything.
she'll get ovr it. best of luck!
2007-04-02 15:41:55 · answer #4 · answered by RAND0M CHiCk_♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a hard one to answer but it seems to me as if you already think it would be something wrong with dating him because your asking for opinions. i know that you don't want to hurt your friend so i think you should tell her that he asked you out and see how she responds and if she asks do you like him i would tell her yes because you don't want her to find out the wrong way.
2007-04-02 15:49:09 · answer #5 · answered by CHERISH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends should come first. Ask her if its ok and then you will know what to do. If it bothers her then don't go out with him because it will probably end your friendship.
2007-04-02 15:37:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better be upfront with your friend. See what she says about him asking you out. Not your fault he likes you and not her.... but friends are important and you know she likes him too.
2007-04-02 15:34:55 · answer #7 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay well theres with thing about friends and like they dont like the guy there goin out with or w.e. just tell ur friends that w.e his name had asked u out. i dont want u to be mad but woul d u be mad if i went lou twith him?...
2007-04-02 15:40:58 · answer #8 · answered by liss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tell your friend that you like him and ask her how she feels about it. then depending on if she is okay with it or not that is when you decide is he worth your friendship or not.
2007-04-02 15:34:43 · answer #9 · answered by chrissy23w15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your friend BEFORE you decide to go out with him or not
2007-04-02 15:35:13 · answer #10 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the answer is simple...go out with him, but tell her....this is on a need to know basis and she don't need to know...follow!>?
2007-04-02 15:37:57 · answer #11 · answered by bubbascosmo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋