I am 13 and which ever place I go, I am the one doing things differently or behaving differently. Why???
2007-04-02 05:18:05 · 7 answers · asked by Sweetos 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Because you are a unique individual. It's good to be a leader and not a follower. People who do things differently are always the more interesting people I think. Be glad that you stand out and aren't a cookie cutter of everyone else your age. Be yourself and be proud of who you are.
2007-04-02 07:07:44 · answer #1 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are 13, you do not know your true personality yet. You are learning what your true personality is, but peers and hormones get in the way. You are experimenting with different personalities, to figure out the one you feel most comfortable with. At this stage in your life,it is important to let you know that the friends you choose can influence you very much. In fact they can influence your whole life. Pick people with qualities that you admire, like honesty, fun to be around, kind and caring, intelligent. Get rid of friends that smoke, or cuss, or do drugs, or abuse you or others. This will ensure success for you in your years to come.
2007-04-02 12:25:28 · answer #2 · answered by B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem distraught about being different. That is a blessing! If everybody thought or acted the same, nothing would ever change. It's those who are different that make the world a better place!!! God doesn't make mistakes and He made you special for a reason. Hope that helps you!
2007-04-02 12:30:07 · answer #3 · answered by GladToBeSaved 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Mayb You have Different Thouts Values Concepts... Unique is The word....its not strange..
2007-04-02 12:36:06 · answer #4 · answered by babyyocca 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through that too. As a teenager, we feel the need to fit in. Now that I'm almost 16, I don't feel that way anymore. People are going to talk-- at least give them a reason to and just be yourself. It is their problem if they don't like you!!!!!
2007-04-02 12:25:38 · answer #5 · answered by Sara H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There isn't an actual answer to that, you're just different. And there's absolutely nothing wrong with that. Embrace your uniqueness, people will admire you for it later.
2007-04-02 12:26:30 · answer #6 · answered by Katelynn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Different from what? Who says you are different...maybe everyone else is different! There is nothing wrong with being different...diversity is GREAT!!!!
2007-04-02 12:28:43 · answer #7 · answered by manda 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋