My wife fantasizes about other women and about me having sex with other women. Is this cause for concern, or just a fantasy, just something that gets her going. I understand fantasies can range far and wide, but my wife picturing lesbian encounters with me doing things to the other women, is this cause for concern...DISCUSS.....please....
2007-04-02 04:13:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
OK, I am absolutely straight but I have had fantasies about other women. I can only answer for myself but I think it sounds normal.
2007-04-02 04:53:35 · answer #1 · answered by Elizabeth Howard 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No matter how tight I am with someone, there are some fantasies I keep to myself--maybe she should have kept this on hidden.
The main thing you need to decide is whether this is a vacation from reality for her mind (like when I fantasize about celebrities) or if this is a deeper part of her sexuality and something she is really trying to explore. If you can't see her or both of you with another woman, it is still only a cause of concern if you think it could turn to action by her.
If she was just feeling you out to see if you might be into swinging, let her know that she's all you want, and hope she says the same back to you. If she can't, you have problems Y!A can't solve, but if she was just looking to spice up your relationship, she might find another flavor of spice to do that.
2007-04-02 11:22:32 · answer #2 · answered by wayfaroutthere 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I honestly don't think so. Fantasies are just fantasies! I don't know if this is true for all women, but I know a lot of women who fantasize about other women. I guess what I hear is that in general the female body is attractive to both males and females. I think your ok...now if she's starts asking to bring a third person in...then I'd worry. :-)
2007-04-02 11:18:56 · answer #3 · answered by Bea 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Both men and women fantasize with no intention of ever doing anything within their fantasy. Be happy that you are at least in her fantasy!
2007-04-02 11:19:11 · answer #4 · answered by CarbonDated 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you try & help your wife with her lesbian fantasies by dressing up as a woman & see what happens.
2007-04-02 17:40:16 · answer #5 · answered by J 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you got yerself a keeper.
2007-04-02 11:17:55 · answer #6 · answered by Buckwheat 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
sounds pretty healthy to me!
2007-04-02 13:54:43 · answer #7 · answered by Yemaya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋