My ex-girlfriend & I split up a month ago.We were under a lot of stress from other things,& she finished with me because of it. Now everything's fine. The other day,we went out for a drink,& spoke for nearly 4 hours! She said she feels guilty for finishing,doesn't want2get back together,yet does want to spend time with me...and just see where the friendship goes...then she says maybe i can come over and we watch a dvd/have lunch etc on friday..i've said yes. The thing is, I want more from her,& am confused as I dont think she does from me, although she wasnt really clear! What do I do, do I still go,& is it worth me saying/trying anything?
2007-04-01 22:05:25 · 7 answers · asked by Soliloquy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I would say never get back with an ex because any bad and old emotions may come up alot. Maybe just start out as friends like she suggested but be careful that she doesn't play games with your heart.
2007-04-01 22:09:28 · answer #1 · answered by kitty_loves_cuddles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
* Just give it time , you dont want to rush into things and end up messing everything up again do you ? Me and my bf had a fight but after a while we decided to be friends , after a while of being friends , we tried again and we have been back together for a while now , so just take things slow and be friends and talk about stuff , dont worry if its ment to be it will and if you dont want to wait , give it like 2 months and ask her where you stand ? My and my bf even had partners but we got back together so Good Luck * An old flame never burns out *
2007-04-02 06:26:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she cares about you, she just doesn't want to rush things. If you still care for her you should go, and just take it easy don't rush back into a relationship. Enjoy her company and see what happens. If it is meant to be things will work out.
2007-04-02 05:12:22 · answer #3 · answered by Mitzi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you don't mind being used go have lunch with her and watch a DVD etc.You want her that bad knowing that it's only on her terms you'll get to see her.
2007-04-02 05:29:26 · answer #4 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im a girl and i know girls,she wants to be back with you so go for it and don't worry,i went back to my boyfriend after a year an half of breaking up and i was this close to get married to another guy,im very happy now
2007-04-02 05:21:30 · answer #5 · answered by eve 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is trying to give this relationship with you another chance although she is confused. So should you.. What have you got to loose???
2007-04-02 05:19:43 · answer #6 · answered by AdultMale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she wants friends only uwant more move on or u will b her convenient male
2007-04-02 05:23:41 · answer #7 · answered by mmbmw2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋