As the procedure was being performed while I was under the gas she used it like truth serum and found out some nasty things about me . So when I came to after the doctors and nurses were looking at me like I was a monster! Anyway she found out I had some affairs . I just think it was sneaky and humilitating how she did it! What should I do ?
2007-04-01 22:02:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I gave permission for her to be with me in procedure thinking she would protect me in case there was a puncture to my intestines!
2007-04-01 22:15:55 · update #1
Yeah I guess you could say that she was sneaky. But what kind of man cheats on is wife? She probably had a feeling about affairs and just needed proof. You better start asking for her forgiveness. She may never trust you again but that will be the consequence you will have to deal with due from cheating.
2007-04-01 22:07:47 · answer #1 · answered by kitty_loves_cuddles 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just wait it out...and start thinking how you're going to live the rest of your life not married to her. If you take the inititive, then she'll get more out of the divorce then you. You made your bed, now you'll need to lie in it. But...now I'm wondering...can you find a lawyer to sue those doctors and nurses who let your wife keep asking you questions? She's a sneaky one...let her go.
2007-04-02 05:08:19 · answer #2 · answered by babbles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are making things up. Colonoscopy is usually for people over 50 unless the doctor suspects something. And it never goes that deep and no anesthesia is needed despite the discomfort. It is simple and only one doctor performs the procedure.
2007-04-02 05:33:20 · answer #3 · answered by Sir Richard 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think you are telling the truth about this!
I don't know where you had this performed, but usually for a colonoscopy, the patient is completely out, and the spouse isn't allowed in the room for the exam.
2007-04-02 05:13:23 · answer #4 · answered by Cat Lover 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, my husband says, "If you had kept your vows to her this would have never happened in the first place."
You broke a sacred covenant, she just ask you questions at an inappropriate time. I really doubt she was thrilled to have the doctor and his staff hear about your nastiness.
She was rude, you were WRONG.
2007-04-02 07:07:17 · answer #5 · answered by Mitzi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your punishment like a cheating man should! Anyone that cheats knows that eventually they will get caught.
You called her sneaky and said that she humiliated you. What do you think cheating on your wife is??? Did you ever think that she may have be humiliated too??
Grow up.
2007-04-02 05:10:20 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was going to say, what the hell was she doing in there at the time and then you answered. That was pretty dumb on your part. The damage is done, now you just have to deal with it.
2007-04-02 05:28:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a divorce for rape!
2007-04-02 05:08:43 · answer #8 · answered by Free-Lance 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
are u for real ??????????
2007-04-02 05:08:12 · answer #9 · answered by mmbmw2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋