I am very much dipressed and can not involve my self in my office work....
I am writing this question from a desk of my office...
It is only 8 months passed to my marriag, and my life became interestless..
It comes to knows to me after second day of my marriage that my wife was having a sexual relationship with another guy of his town. She herself told me about this. After that one more love story she has discussed with me... During these 8 months, she has discussed total 6 love stories of her with me...
Four days ago when a boy who reside near me proposed her, she just denied him... and today after four days she is discussing this event with me...
I dont know what to do? Whether she will continue making stories or she will be totally mine as she is telling...
Please answer me...
Paresh
2007-04-01 21:46:54 · 15 answers · asked by Paresh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Paresh.......
No body can tell whether all this is true or just stories....
But If all this is true then seriously...... u should not imagine anything wrong abt your wife BUT TO proud to have a wife like this.......
Becoz there are very few people who tell their partner abt their past life..... If your wife had any relationship in the past then just forget abt that... Atleast she told you abt her past....
Communicate with her.. discuss abt your future.... & forget abt her past & make a new move in your married life...
GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!
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2007-04-01 22:22:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actually she is making you fool . I think she is very childish and young . She want to see jealousy in you . She loves you for sure ! Take fora moment that your wife had a pre marital affair and how would you know that without the confession ? You should appreciate her bravery . Remember your those days before marriage .
So, your wife is in a mood of fun , she is simply making stories to get more attention from you . Ignore it , do your job . She is yours only . Spend a little more time with her , this will solve the problem .
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2007-04-02 11:45:18 · answer #2 · answered by babu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably she is doing all this so that you become miserable and put an end to this marriage. Your wife is a disgusting woman. She likes to torment you.She doesnt have the nerve to tell you that she has married you out of choice. even if this isnt so then she has some other insane reason. In any case get rid of her for the sake of your sanity. There is no point in a relationship where you have to bury your hapiness. and I m feeling very bad about telling you to break the marriage. but I am just being honest not a home breaker.
2007-04-02 06:00:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
May I tell you something straight on your face, Paresh? You are the suspicious husband and I dont think there is any problem with her. It was you who asked about her love life prior to marriage by siting one or two of your experience. The poor girl thought that you are interested to hear stories and fabricated one with lots of imagination and you enjoyed hearing it. You probed further about her love life and she became creative and started making stories with lots of colour about imaginary sexual acts and you enjoyed it. The last was about the neighbour and you expected her to tell that she has a crush over him or vice versa and that she plans to sleep with him-unfortunately it did not come true and thus you are depressed. You are a fool my dear!!!
If she was not loyal to you, she would have eloped with a dozen boys than tolerating you as a suspicious husband!! She did not do that. I suspect you are not faithful to your wife nd wants to find an alibi for that!!!
2007-04-02 05:58:04 · answer #4 · answered by THE WORRIER 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ok dude see dis u ll really feel like killing me but theres no way getting out of dis. U can do one thing:
tell her 2 stop her stories , nd say tht u dont ve any thing 2 do wid her past nd now as she is urs she shuld be totally devoted 2 u
also tell tht u really love her nd dont want 2 make relationship bad
nd 4 u:
U r a FUCKER ... cant u get these things out b4 u had marriage thrugh some of ur frnds or relatives
nd one more thing:
relations r based on trust ... se i 2 been wid such girls in my life we meet 4 sex nd then break off... its like onw night stand dude ,..... so no hard feeling ........ nd u can also contact me if u want to
2007-04-02 15:00:03 · answer #5 · answered by Rockd 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Either your are careless or exceptionally ignorant. Honestly there's one thing you need, a DIVORCE. Come on man this woman could ruin your life. You don't want to be with a woman thats ******* every Tom, ****, and Harry. Show some self-respect and man up tell her you don't want to be in a life like that. Cause by the way you tell this, it shows you don't. I'm sure your a decent man as many people are. But she's giving you the shaft. Sorry if that hurts considering its your wife but that's no lady you want to be with. I like woman with a little self-respect. She seems more of a ***** than a good wife. I'm glad i'm having to worry about this with my girl. That must hurt alot deep down. I know it has to. Getting cheated on is bad enough let alone adultry.
2007-04-02 05:00:59 · answer #6 · answered by fcrnnngbck25 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What is wrong with people nowadays??Once you are married, you belong to each other and affairs of the past should be forgotten and forgiven. Both of you should see life together as a couple and try to make the marriage work. All this talk about her ex-boyfriends are useless to you. Just think, what is the point of talking about the past relationship when you have each other to provide for. Just a thought...
2007-04-02 05:15:58 · answer #7 · answered by happy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1st of all keep patience
listen only my words
life is so long in our whole life we have to strugle
so do not depressed.
u nd ur wife both are going in same phase
ur wife is un known from u .
by leaving all thing give her love
love herrr.....
so that she can feel there is only u who can give her so much
love .
i know u nd ur wife both r adjusting
but u dont have 2 adjust,u have 2 do some thing,because u had marry her
there is ur reponsibility 2 make surronding of love.
ur wife is not so much mature ithink so take her 2 honey
moon and there u have 2 give feel her that ur great
once she give u respect then under stand she becomes ur wife .until that u have 2 struggle.
and keep on smiling .hamesha khush rahho aur sabhi ko khush rakho.ye tumhari jimedari hai
thank u
god bless u
2007-04-02 05:15:00 · answer #8 · answered by sn arya 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel pity for you. Either she is really sexually frustrated person with many such relationships hanging on her back or she is just making fool of/teasing you. Now it is upto you to decide to continue with her or seek divorce from her as if this thing continues it will mentally affect you & you won’t be able to concentrate on your work. If she is just fooling you tell her point blank she should stop it as it affects you mentally. If she is serious then ask her to either forget all what happened & never discuss it or mention about it in future or just give you divorce so that at least you have peace of mind. I may sound harsh but it’s no use continuing such a marriage if this continues in your life & upsets you mentally.
2007-04-02 05:11:47 · answer #9 · answered by vijay m Indian Lawyer 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Dear PARESH ,
As you told your story , it seems that "SHE" is made for you only .
She is just looking into your life by a diffrent angel. You just love her and see the changes.It seems that there is some thing lacking in your expression of LOVE .
2007-04-02 04:56:16 · answer #10 · answered by Jacky.- the "INDIAN". 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋