2007-04-01 21:45:57 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I'm assuming she's pregnant? Ask her what you can do to help her... she probably feels really under the weather and fatigued. It's a miserable thing to constantly feel sick and NOT be!
My husband offers me back rubs every once in a while, which don't really help the pain much, but it does wonders for my attitude! I appreciate that he takes notice of me even though I feel like a cow. ;) He also rubs my legs when I have leg cramp attacks in the middle of the night and constantly tells me he loves the way I look (even if he's lying, he sounds convincing!).
Help her with housework and tell her to take it easy. My husband works long hours, but when he comes home and tells me I should go rest and he'll finish the floors... it's selfless and it sends me the message that even though I don't work as many hours as he does, he still acknowledges I'm working hard and he appreciates me!
These all apply even if she isn't pregnant. Women are emotional, so you have to be available for her in that way. Make sure she knows you appreciate her and love her, and she will reciprocate the feelings, I promise!
And if she's ever upset, talk to her and deal with the problem RIGHT THEN. And hugs go a long way! Remember to be affectionate (without fondling)... nothing is more annoying than thinking hubby is being sweet only to find out he wants something more! There's a time and place for that later...
2007-04-09 11:58:03 · answer #1 · answered by sublimekindalife 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can make your wife happy by being there for her. Letting her know she is the only woman in your life. Talk to her. Communication is a big thing. Do little things for her. When you start to argue over something, realize she is more important than what you're arguing over, give her a hug and tell her you love her (as long as she doesn't try and swing on ya lol!) If you know the things she likes certain things do some for her when she's having a bad day.
2007-04-09 10:56:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on the type of things your wife likes. Think of something that you know makes your wife happy and do it to the best of your ability. How about leaving her a little note where she can "find" it (like in her purse or on her pillow) telling her you love her just for being her. Its the little things in life that women appreciate. The big things are too easy.
2007-04-09 11:51:30 · answer #3 · answered by Ms.Class 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send her some flowers, "Roses" it will brighten her day and who knows what else. It is the simple, small things in life that usually makes a women/wife happy (at least for me). Put some love notes in the cupboard or in the car (where she would least expect it). Oh! and when you argue, think before you speak if all else fails just agree with her and dismiss it. Spend some alone time with her watch a movie snuggle up by romantic.
2007-04-09 13:50:16 · answer #4 · answered by ~jenn~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Know your wife. It depends on what kind of woman she is. But as a wife, I'd be happy if :
1. My husband talks to me politely
2. My husband is loyal
3. Remembers important dates and surprises me
4. Makes little things just to see me smile
Wives are happy if the husband just takes time to appreciate things their wives do for them
2007-04-09 16:54:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish my husband was asking that a little more** Honestly, I hate to tell you... I'm a wife myself and quite frankly there's always something that isn't right!... sorry - but one way to try and boost her is to tell her you love her alot and help her around the house as much as possible... if you take some of her "load" off a little then she might have more time to focus on you and the relationship! Just a suggestion... not really sure b/c I don't know her... But your a great man just to try!! Good luck and hope things get better!!
2007-04-02 03:24:03 · answer #6 · answered by texasmom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her how much you appreciate her and all the things she does for you- try buying her some flowers, tell her how much you love her everyday- take her out for a romantic dinner.
I think that a lot of the time we take each other for granted, we need to appreciate each other more, rememeber the little things, like taking the rubbish out or cooking tea.
just some ideas? give em a go. you can make women happy most men just dont try!!! good on you for being a loving man and wanting to enhance your relationship, your wife is very lucky.
2007-04-07 19:08:25 · answer #7 · answered by s-curly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not always easy to make someone happy, but here my advices, try to be there for her no matter what, and love her as much as you can. ( You know your wife better than we do, so look for what she loves the most and the rest should do it) Good luck
2007-04-01 21:52:43 · answer #8 · answered by Missy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can't make someone else happy. That comes from within them. You can only control how you feel. But if you are a happier person then chances are it'll rub off on her a bit.
2007-04-09 07:17:50 · answer #9 · answered by gabriella 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
massage her feet and her back. make her dinner. clean the house. buy her something - not something you like but something she likes. look her straight in the eye when taking to her. bring home the bacon and if she isn't working, don't make her ask for money, please. make sure her car is always clean and her tank filled up. don't look at other women in her presence. take her out on a date night every so often and label it as a date night just for her. be nice to her family and friends. agree with everything she says unless she's in a mood to argue. have a limo pick her up and take her to a day spa. make sure she always has a dozen roses on her nightstand. be affectionate, cuddly and warm. ask her if there is anything she wants to talk about from time to time. clean up after yourself - no shavings on the bathroom counter top. be strong, a leader, a man of the house. learn to do as many things around the house as possible yourself and do always make sure everything is picture perfect inside and out as far as maintenance goes. don't wear what she doesn't like - it's irritating. never leave the house or, fall asleep at night without telling her you love her. surprise her from time to time with and unexpected small something that expresses your adoration. make sure everyone in your family respects her as your wife and your house as her house.
that's a good start. ready? go!
2007-04-01 22:03:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋