Easy mistake to make or something subconscious? Is it something to worry about or just forget about?
2007-04-01 21:36:31 · 37 answers · asked by April 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
In the very early stage of a relationship i suppose its quite normal.Especially if they were with their ex for a while.But if it happened further on in the relationship i would be very annoyed.
2007-04-01 21:39:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Depends on who that person is.
If it was an ex who they had been seeing for a couple of years or more then yes it is a very easy mistake especially if they have only recently broken up with them.
I called my gf by my exes name. It was not subconscious as I had absolutely no feelings for this ex and never think about her. It was just that I was so used to saying her name as I had been with her for over a year.
2007-04-01 21:41:28 · answer #2 · answered by abluebobcat 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is very much something to worry about how in the world can your partner who sleeps with you eats with you and everything else that goes along with it.Other then work you two are together and your names becomes lodged in your heads.The only way you call your partner by another name is if you are spending a lot of time with that other person and calling out their name and that name get locked in as well so I would be very concerned if I where you.
2007-04-01 21:56:25 · answer #3 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've actually done it a few times but have never been caught becuase I think I've caught myself 1/2 way through saying it. It's been done to me a few times & it hurts because it wasn't an especially new relationship. Unfortunately it does happen whether it's a friend's name or some ex just because. I wouldn't over react but yoiu may want to let the person know you were hurt & to please be more aware of you & your feelings.
2007-04-01 21:50:52 · answer #4 · answered by CrazyEddy06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ill get really angry...
No not an easy mistake 2 make.Ive studied relationships in physcology for my A levels they say that if a person (man or woman) calls out another name of an ex or any other person while with another lady or man then that person hasnt forgotten and is very deeply attached and constantly conciously and subconciously thinking of that person.Its like that person has deeply engraved a image of him or her in the persons heart therfore he/she will be constantly their even if fogotten for awhile the attachement will be shown by saying the name of loved one while asleep or ill etc
i hope this info is helpful
2007-04-01 22:20:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He did, yesterday. Called me Anita, a woman he works with, half the time he's calling her all the names under the sun, and the next breath they are bessie mates. It's okay, he daren't do anything with her, cos if he does i will be off like a shot. I've been messed about before, and he knows it ended in divorce. I'm not afraid to do it again.Plus it would kill him if i took his daughter.
2007-04-01 22:17:14 · answer #6 · answered by Jeanette 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it would depend on the situation. If he called me by another name in bed, I would be deeply suspicious - if it was just in casual conversation, I would assume his mind had been elsewhere (not in a sexual way!) and wouldn't be too bothered - I would give him a bit of a hard time about it though!
2007-04-01 21:42:35 · answer #7 · answered by f0xymoron 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't tell you how many times I've called my husband by my ex-husbands name. It's kind of funny really. He'd just look at me like "What did you just say?" But I only did it because my ex would have made me mad about something he should have or promised to do for our kids and changed his mind then I'd be thinking more about him and his stupid crap.
2007-04-01 21:46:25 · answer #8 · answered by Countrygirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was his exes name and wed just got together - easy mistake. If hes been 'disappearing' 'working late' smelling of someones elses perfume, lipstick on his collar, and its a name I dont recognise - dodgy.
2007-04-01 21:40:56 · answer #9 · answered by jeanimus 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For me it would depend how long we had been together - if it was for a short period of time I would show him I was pis*ed off but if we had been together a while I would be extremely hurt and maybe a little worried.
2007-04-01 21:40:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋