2007-04-01 20:53:48 · 21 answers · asked by kyle 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Even if you miss how flattering all this might feel ... you have to say goodbye for good. Its best for both of you.
2007-04-01 22:23:07 · answer #1 · answered by Sultan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now that you are both married, not only does he have a history with you so that he feels comfortable but he also sees you as forbidden fruit. If he still loves you, you can call that friendship. People forget that friends love each other! Yes, you can love a friend without having to have sex with them (attention, all you out there in the gay and lesbian world!) so take the 'love' out of your question. What is left is a question about cheating. No. Always wrong. Work on the relationship you have with the person you are committed to in marriage.
2007-04-09 08:16:06 · answer #2 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently his feelings did change,at least long enough to fall in love with another and get married.
Now to the truth behind what he feels is love,which is generally not what it really is.
when to people are friends for a long time and have done lots of things together, its very common to become infatuated with them and get the strong urge to want to have a sexual type of contact even if the thought of it getting weird after wards is there.
generally most friends that do have sex wind up going separate ways after the deed is done and if u ask me its really not worth throwing a good friendship away for no matter how strong the temptation.
True friends last forever.
Hope i helped u.............
2007-04-09 18:30:59 · answer #3 · answered by remi c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that tell me that you are both probably married to the wrong person. Some time best friends are meant to be husband and wife. But if you have chose different spouse then you have to stay away from each other in the love game.
2007-04-09 16:07:01 · answer #4 · answered by kool aid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say that your best friend fell in love with you, not that you are in love with him. You are both at this point married to other people, well the love has been there for a while now and you don't say, but we will assume that you are happily married, then let your best friend remain your best friend that loves you, but don't alter your life because of some assumed greener grass, that you could have had before your husband. This is one of those loving something that you can't have syndrome, with regard to your friend. Stay in your marriage.
2007-04-07 22:06:33 · answer #5 · answered by Bethy4 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if you are both in love with each other, there is a reason that you chose to marry other people. So leave it at that. If it had been meant for the two of you to be toegether, you would have married each other, so something was lacking....
2007-04-09 02:45:42 · answer #6 · answered by mssgtmidnight1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As hard as it is, it is in both of your best interests to stay away from each other. Are you really willing to risk your marriage. If It was meant to be then it would have happened, but it didn't so It is best to forget him and live a happy life with your husband. I know it is easier to say than to do, just be strong.
2007-04-08 17:18:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is your best friend than he won't act on his feelings, knowing that your married, and he is too. if he acts on his feelings, then he isn't a best friend. You should try to keep lots of distance between you and not give him any indication that you might be interested in him.
2007-04-09 07:21:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Now that you are married, this shouldn't even be something worth discussing, tell your husband or you need to stop conversing with him. You will soon find yourself in deep trouble, if you are not already .
2007-04-07 13:10:09 · answer #9 · answered by Go GO Ressa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to stay married keep as far away from the friend as possible...even if it means moving to another town or state.
2007-04-01 20:58:13 · answer #10 · answered by Im Listening 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋