How do u put a spark back into a relationship?
we have sex all the time but there is no spark.
should we try abstaining from it, flirting, etc.. or what?
2007-04-01 17:30:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
My husband and I sometimes pretend we don't know each other. We even change our names for the night and ask each other out and assume a different persona for the night. It brings back the first date jitters (it really does) and because you are making everything up as you go along it can be really funny. You can have a "one night stand" without really having one. It always puts the spark back and we have some really great memories.
2007-04-01 17:36:35 · answer #1 · answered by Kewpie 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Trying something new outside the bedroom will spark new fun and flirtiness between the two of you. Being together for some time can become drab & boring and something fun you both can enjoy and possibly become passionate about will create new sparks.
I would recommend waking him up for some nookie
Surprise him at the door
Cook his favorite meal & make the night all about him
It will take time but once the two of you become un-boring and spontaneous the spark will come back.
2007-04-01 17:47:31 · answer #2 · answered by Koro 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say give eachother some space for a little bit but also try something brand new together. You could go away for a few days to see friends or vice versa and you could maybe take dance lessons or something. I think all relationships have seasons just like the weather. You may be going through a dry time now but eventually it will rain again.
2007-04-01 17:41:06 · answer #3 · answered by jamie kat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As the woman in the relationship, that is assuming there is a guy in the picture. And if there isn't I' apologize, you have the upper hand. Unless he's a Casanova, which I doubt, you have the upper hand. Make him earn making love to you. Not just sex. It has to be making love for it to mean anything. If he has a problem with that, trying to find the spark to relight your relationship isn't worth the effort. Hope this helps.
2007-04-01 17:58:52 · answer #4 · answered by Dr. E. Bunny A.K.A. Andy. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This might sound crazy but there are so many things you can do to spark up your relationship...for example buy a kamasutra book and it shows so many positions you can try and different ways to feel certain feelings. or you could try going to a sex store and buy alot of different sex toys like vidrators,dick rings, dildoes etc....in order to keep him intrested and satisfied to need to pick up ur game. becuase if you dont someone else will. or if thats too much for you then just lay off and just do foreplay ALOT...that will get him wanting you so bad and that will make the experience ten times better!!!
2007-04-01 17:54:47 · answer #5 · answered by *Gelli* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Remember when you were first dating and how you felt when he called, or went out of his for you? Those little things mean a lot. Drop him a flirtatious love note.
2007-04-01 17:40:34 · answer #6 · answered by 4kids2pay4 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
get some sexy outfits, or maybe trying to abstain for a while
2007-04-01 17:34:52 · answer #7 · answered by msX 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try new things........new positions, do some role playing. dress sexy...wear stilettos....so many things to keep the excitement in a relationship !!! ♥
2007-04-01 17:34:34 · answer #8 · answered by Bren 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A good dose of innocent flirty jealousy.
2007-04-01 17:55:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
get yourself a spark plug, tell him to hold it, in his mouth,then hook it up to a 12 volt battary, The sparks will fly
2007-04-01 17:45:43 · answer #10 · answered by Gumbo 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋