for yourself...
or to care for someone else...???
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2007-04-01 16:38:04 · 19 answers · asked by yahoo 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Both. Definately.
If you don't care for yourself, despite your mistakes and faults, then you won't know how to care about other people (who will also be imperfect) [For example, the most unkind and proud people I've ever met didn't accept themselves, and therefore thought they were humble.]
Now if you mean "take care of," then I would also say both. If you don't have the understanding and self-control to take care of yourself well, (mentally and physically - keeping yourself healthy and joyful, purposeful in life) then you don't have the requisite understanding and self-control to take of others. [This may be a subconcious reason why girls are more attracted to muscular and healthy guys]
And if you mean, when push comes to shove, who should you put first, I would say others. That is true selfless love, which not only makes the world a better place, but it adds richness to your life, and their life.
2007-04-01 16:48:48 · answer #1 · answered by thecrazyperson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its important to care for yourself as well as to care for others.
2007-04-01 16:45:17 · answer #2 · answered by Meeya 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course its more important to care for yourself first...
how will you be able to care for others if.. at the first place you can't take care of yourself?
2007-04-01 16:41:07 · answer #3 · answered by mae_ann 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you have to take care of yourself before you can take care of someone else
2007-04-01 16:40:48 · answer #4 · answered by ♥fungirl♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well on airplanes they always tell you to put the oxygen on yourself first before helping others.
2007-04-01 16:41:59 · answer #5 · answered by Eisbär 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about you, but for me I care about others before me. I put my husband and my daughter before me always. Everyone is different, It is how you are as a person.
2007-04-01 16:43:32 · answer #6 · answered by heavenlyours2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, you should be #1 always. But never lose consideration for the people around you, especially the ones you love. That'd be pretty selfish.
2007-04-01 16:41:40 · answer #7 · answered by xoxo_sexy_biatch_xoxo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Someone else. Seeing them being happy is the key to my smile.
2007-04-01 16:41:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's better to care for others, because then they, in time, will care for you.
2007-04-01 16:41:47 · answer #9 · answered by ~Lucky~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question.
It is more important to look after yourself to enable you to look after others better.
However, having said that, I'm always putting others first....
2007-04-01 16:41:03 · answer #10 · answered by Fuzzy Wuzzy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋