He says that he can never trust me again and that is why we should not be married, but says that I was such a large part of his life, so he will always love me. He's still hot for me and wishes to make love every night but I feel uncomfortable with this. He's offering me $500 per time we do it, but I love my new guy and I want to be only with him. My hubby supports me with my decision and says that love is precious and life is short so I should be with the one I truely love. He gives his best wishes, but DAMN, he still wants sex! I still have feelings of friendship but I feel like I'm being used and abused! Don't I deserve more? My mother says that I am stupid. That people have affairs for years and never get caught, then they split and she takes half the house. I'm getting nothing cause "I'm stupid". Don't you think that I deserve just a little more than this for being with this guy for 7 long years. I mean, minimum wage of $7 times 7 years comes out to at least $98,000 don't u agree?
2007-04-01 13:01:51 · 33 answers · asked by Tanya A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He's been so cruel to me since he found out that I was in love with another guy. He promised to protect me and support me forever and now he's getting a legal separation agreement written up. Soon he'll leave and then after 1 year we'll be divorced. Then I'm screwed as I don't have a job and my new lover is way too poor to support me in any way!
Right now, we're still living together (me and my hubby) and sleeping together, he just gave me a new car, put $5,000 into my bank, and he's paying all of the bills (food, rent, phone, cable), including $3000 for next semester's tuition (I'm going to college for accounting). And yes, he knows I love the other guy very much. But I only want to sleep with my lover, NOT my husband. But my husband says that he still loves me and has offered me $500 if we have sex together. The NERVE OF HIM !!! If I record his offerings, is it possible to go to the courts and have him charged with soliciting prostitution from his wife?
2007-04-01 13:02:30 · update #1
He's treating you like a hooker. Get the hell out of there. Have a bit a pride in yourself.
2007-04-01 13:37:12 · answer #1 · answered by hlx099 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Actually if this is a prank lol if not your a cheating wife and should not get a dime! He put his love and life into this as well are you going to pay him as well. Grow up it sounds like the only reason you got involved with this guy in the first place is he is a sugar daddy. If anything I would stop accepting money from this guy and just move out and stay with this lover of your's. Have you ever stopped to consider that this other guy has just been using for sex and he doesn't want nothing else from you!?. I'm not one to judge but you make me sick!
2007-04-01 13:13:00 · answer #2 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say all 3 of you need to grow up and go seperate directions... If you keep up on the path your all playing it will destroy all of you.
Oh are you crying cause he was cruel to you when he caught you screwing around... ????? What did you expect that he would come home happy and congratulate you... with flowers and candy ???? YA whore !!!!
You're husband should stop paying and having sex with you,, and kick you out immediately. And no you do not deserve that $100,000 I would consider it already paid by the money your husband has paid you // and all your screwing around. You should leave only with what ever you have in your hand and not a dime more.
Hope the new boy friend does not take you either. Cause If you say he is poor you will only cheat and ruin his life as well..
Bottom line again is grow up ya lieing, thieving, whoring B .I.T.C.H !!!!!!
Check yourself into a clinic and get your life cleaned up. It would be your very best choice :))
2007-04-01 13:16:55 · answer #3 · answered by Tom M 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I dont think you deserve anything. Your husband is stupid for giving you all those things even though you blatenly tell him you love the other guy, not him. You make your own choices and is sounds like you want your cake and eat it too. You may be being used but you are using and abusing your husband just for the money. You made the choice to cheat and if you love the other guy it should matter whether he is poor or not...u sound like a selfish person.
2007-04-01 13:10:26 · answer #4 · answered by shelly63795 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your "hubby" is an IDIOT. You are a WHORE. "He promised to protect me and take care of me" didn't you take marriage vows promising to be faithful to him? Do you know what the word faithful means you cheap-a s s tramp? You should be left on the streets turnin tricks for what you did to your husband. You GUTTER S L U T. I hope you get a crack habit, have 10 kids from yuor pimp and then die from scabbies and aids. S l o w l y. Oh and If your hubby gets charged with solicitating a prostitute, doesn't that make you the prostitute and you will be charged with solicitation you dum s h i t
2007-04-01 13:38:03 · answer #5 · answered by Gwynny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Know you are the stupid one all he has to say is that you asked him for it and you say that you are in college well you surley are stupid for thinking you are entitled to anything because you are the one who is sleeping with someone else and leaving your husband for someone that doesn't have a pot to piss in and you expect your husband to support you and your new b/f tell that one to the judge you know in michigan its against the law to commit adultry which lands you in jail so personally you sound like a ho and that is not as in hostess. You are the one who wants out so you better start looking for a job because it will only be a matter of time before your husband finds someone else who will love him and be true to him
2007-04-01 13:43:16 · answer #6 · answered by Mary O 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he should put you on the street corner and see if he can pimp you out.This is whats wrong with society now.To many people trying to get something for nothing from an ex that did all the work while the other one screwed around.
2007-04-01 15:10:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You cheated therefore you deserve nothing.
Your husband probably thought you'd take him up on his offer since you have such wonderful morals.
You cheated, so why do you feel entitled to anything? I guess it's not your fault since your mother taught you such lovely morals.
2007-04-01 13:11:09 · answer #8 · answered by QT 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u don't deserve anything for your betrayal of your husband, u shouldn't get a penny. so now u will have to get a job, and see how the other half lives. so why not go live with your lover and just leave.
2007-04-01 13:11:49 · answer #9 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are marriage to a guy, and have a boyfriend. the hubby gives you money not the boyfriend, this is weird sound like some Jerry springer stuff to me.
2007-04-01 13:09:15 · answer #10 · answered by birdsdafly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be a professional whore----- out in Nevada.
The thing you keep bringing up is $$$$$$$$$. Have you no respect for yourself?
And how could you be in love with someone that is willing to cheat with a married woman.
You're mom is right.............you are stupid.
2007-04-01 13:10:54 · answer #11 · answered by Ella 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋