Are Men Incapable of Monogamy?

Question

Do I just "ACCEPT" that every man will cheat? Should I just be happy that he comes back home to me?

Answer 1

men have a biological need to spread their seed. men cheat and some men are actually MEN like my dad who respects and pulls their weight and takes care of kids. you can find them but their rare, cause i have yet to actually meet a MAN. but they do exist!!!!

Answer 2

No, you shouldn't settle for being used as a door mat !!!

Would he hang around if you were cheating? NO

Aren't you worth more than this?

Don't you deserve better?

Boot his @SS to the curb


Then get right with yourself, get and education, a good job, your own home,

When you've done that find someone who has done the same. If they don't have a job, or living with mom and dad, leave them alone.

Stop going for a guy who looks just the way you want or gives you a little attention. See how he treats his mom,sisters, and Ppl.in general. As long as you don't cheat don't take it from someone else.

You could have kids with this guy, what will you do then? He's not only cheating on you he's cheating on them too.

Hope this helps

Answer 3

you shouldn't be happy that he comes back to you....however, not all men are cheaters
---you just haven't found the right man for you.. Not every man that is handsome or shows an interest in you is worthy of your time.
figure out what you want in a man and only attract men who have those qualities because if you just date every guy that shows an interest in you, you will end up dating men that are similar in every which way with the exception of having different faces

Answer 4

Men are capable of monogamy in my opinion. But I wouldn't settle for or accept a guy with cheating behavior if he is not willing to change and to whatever it took to make things right.

Answer 5

No. Some men are dogs and will run around, but not every man is like that. I many good men who are monogamous, in relationships and very in love with their wife. If a man doesn't have enough respect for you to stay true to you then don't be happy when he comes back...don't let him back to hurt you again.

Answer 6

All men do NOT cheat. I've lived with the same man for almost 37 years and he hasn't cheated on me. We love each other and hate a lot of things about each other, but..... we each know that no one is perfect and accept the things we hate about each other as part of our union. We talk about these things(usually not quietly) and have patience with each other.

If I ever found that my husband cheated on me or if he found that I cheated on him, our union would be no more and we wouldn't accept each other any more.

Answer 7

Absolutely, if you keep ending up with men that cheat on you maybe you should have a deeper look at your selection process and what you may be doing to attract men who always cheat on you.

Answer 8

No, you shouldn't have to settle for that. I am a 33 year old man and am completely monogamous and have been for the 6 years we have been together. I love my wife and find her very sexy and she fulfills all of my needs physically and emotionally. I don't need anyone else. I am perfectly happy being a one woman man. Keep looking and don't settle for someone who won't be faithful.

Answer 9

Men are fully capable of monogamy. Perhaps you should examine the type of men you are attracted to and what attracts you to them. You have to change most likely.

Answer 10

I think some women are attracted to men that treat them like crap. You must be one of them. I am a guy who has been in lots of relationships. I have never even thought of cheating.