Okay my boyfriend, Aaron, and I have been going out for about 5 months. We have a great time when we are together. We used to be friends before we went out & im also really good friends with his best friend Jason.Aaron and Jason have been best friends for a long time.They were even in a band together. Jason and I both play guitar.He comes over to my house & gives me lessons. We all live near each other.I walk home from school with Aaron and sometimes with Jason. A few months ago Jason told me how much he liked me & wrote a poem for me & said he might even love me. I was shocked bc were just good friends & we are really close. He will flirt with me alot & I can't help but flirt back. Aaron found out & he is really mad. He & Jason are not even speaking. He is also sort of mad at me for flirting back & not telling him. This has been happening on and off for months. We even broke up now we are back together. I am ruining their friendship. Jason will not stop liking me. What do I do?
2007-04-01 08:38:27 · 10 answers · asked by Lindsey G 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
This will not be the last time this happens to you. It is depressing. Most guys do not seek out "friendship" with girls, there is pretty much an ulterior motive, whether they say so or not. Also, yes, guys friendships sometimes get trashed when this happens. It isn't your fault. Just choose one of them (or neither...hey) and be prepared to take the fallout. This will go on until you are married...hopefully it won't happen again AFTER you get married, LOL.
2007-04-01 08:47:40 · answer #1 · answered by greengo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This problem will work itself out because you both are still young. Decide which one you like the best, tell them both or move on. Someone is bound to get hurt in all this. If you were flirting back you must have feelings for Jason also.
2007-04-01 08:49:15 · answer #2 · answered by Busy Lady 2010 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on who you like more. If you like Aaron more, then tell Jason that you really like Aaron and you don't want to lose him. Then, tell Aaron what you told Jason and how you really feel about the whole situation. Trust me, it'll work. Good luck!!
2007-04-01 08:47:53 · answer #3 · answered by cootiesr4guys 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-08 16:06:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first u need to tell jason that u dont like him tht way and u like Aaron and its probly not going to change then u tel him tht if he likes u thts cool but its not going to happen tell aaron bout everthing and if jason keeps doing it then maybe its not a good thing that they are friends because if hes going to do tht to him then who knows wat jason will do to aaron next
2007-04-01 08:47:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't play around and flirt with your boyfriend's buddy. Then neither one of them will like you in the long run. Anyway, it's not ethical. You said you are ruining their friendship...so stop. just stop.
2007-04-01 08:44:38 · answer #6 · answered by Jenny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trying again to all be best friends might help. Not good to come between friends, everyone seems to lose. Good Luck!
2007-04-01 08:43:07 · answer #7 · answered by aagirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
invite them over for a threesome. And if that doesnt work.
Hook jason up with one of your really slutty friends.
2007-04-01 08:50:26 · answer #8 · answered by Katie B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That question is way too long. I read like 4 words.
2007-04-01 08:42:33 · answer #9 · answered by KC Slim 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ohhh the drama!!!
2007-04-01 08:53:24 · answer #10 · answered by imamom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋