A few years back me and my parents got in a bad car accident. Both my parent died in the crash, and i lived but am paralyzed waist down,even as we speak . What did i do wrong. Why did god do this to me. WHY?!
2007-04-01 07:09:30 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm sorry for your loss and for what has happened to your family. My suggestion would be to pray and talk to God himself. I will pray for you.
2007-04-01 07:13:34 · answer #1 · answered by love my life 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hello my dear you did nothing wrong accidents just happen. I am so very sorry for your lost and pain. I know this is a difficult time for you. Keep your parents alive in your thoughts, remember the good times you shared. God spared you for a reason. My heart goes out to you and there are no words that can ease your pain. I do know this, God loves you very much and he loved your parents as well. You are a blessing to all those around you my dear. Sometimes things happen that we have no control over. What we have to do when things like this happens is to lean on the Lord for strength to get us through. Watch this movie and know that you are so loved and your parents miss you just as much as you miss them. I bet the last thing on their minds was you. Try to find enjoyment the best way you can, God will help you. Watch this www.mayyoubeblessedmovie.com
2007-04-01 13:48:02 · answer #2 · answered by nursey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sadly it is called probabilities, throw a dice many times and you'll see all numbers come up. That's the way the world works, from all the people in the world it is through diversity of outcomes that amazing things happen. It is no different than evolution or investments in the stock market.
There are no predetermined laws to say what's good and what's bad, only after it happens do we know if something good comes out of it.
2007-04-01 07:24:49 · answer #3 · answered by Gustav 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God never gives you more than you can handle. You didn't do anything wrong it just happened , you will be bitter for a long time. You should try to meet others in a group talk that has something similar happen to them .. Your right it's not fair but you going to have to live with it, because you can''t change what has happened to you, they say when when door closes another door opens .
I'm sorry for all this to happen you and may God bless and keep you, please try to find people in your similar situation and make friends don't keep to yourself, you will only make thigs worst. Try to be happy and live with what you have lost, your only making things harder for yourself. Try to be happy , don't blame God, just be happy your were left on this beauitiful earth. Best Of Luck to You.
2007-04-01 07:46:25 · answer #4 · answered by Nicki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am very sorry for the loss of your parents. At the same time, I am glad that you are ok. Nothing anyone can say will make it better or bring them back. However, you need to know that everything in life happens for a reason and while I don't know what that - I can almost guarantee you that you will know in time. It never fails.
2007-04-01 07:14:29 · answer #5 · answered by ameliabedelia_03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm really sorry for your loss and all of your suffering. I think God has a higher purpose for you, he obiviously thinks your stronger than you do. There are many more people have suffered the same, and are as I write this. Maybe you can volunteer in a hosiptal or some where you help kids who are going the same as you. Ask God to direct you, I'm sure if you do he will help and please forgive him.
2007-04-01 07:24:31 · answer #6 · answered by dizzymom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all GOD did not do this to you, he allowed it to happen for a reason , our enemy Satan had a big part in this as we know he has come to steal , kill and destroy . and you did nothing wrong to deserve this no one deserves something like that but God spared you because he has something very special for you to do in this life he would not let Satan kill you because you are very special GOD and yes even you being in a wheelchair GOD can use you to do great and mighty things I know a woman who has a horrible disease can barely walk has crippled hands and cannot feed herself or even right with a pen . but this women sends out inspirational and encouraging emails to people who are hurting and low in spirit , she uses a pencil to type on the computer she stays up all hours of the night doing work for the Lord ministering to people and she lost her husband 8 years ago and has to take care of six children but still goes on with life because she found her purpose in life and you have purpose in life too I do not know if you have a relationship with Jesus Christ but now would be a good time to seek in Him in your personal life because he has great plans for you if you will seek him to find out what they are because he did not keep you from being killed for nothing just think about what I have said here and begin to pray , it does not have to be a fancy prayer just talk to GOD as if you were talking to a friend because that is what HE is our friend and take care I hope I have helped you understand why things happen in life and also things happen to make us stronger you might not see it right now but you will take care OK
2007-04-01 07:33:45 · answer #7 · answered by g_smith 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
God does many things for many reasons. That is one that I cannot explain because I'm not in knowledge of God's plan. Maybe he wants you to spread how difficult it is to live while paralyzed to those who are prejudice to paralyzed persons. I don't know. But try to be optimistic about your condition, I know it's hard, but try.
2007-04-01 07:16:23 · answer #8 · answered by redreturns31 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sorry for your parents. Things just happen...such things ain't fair...yet they do happen...it's hard to find a reason why they happen...yet there must be one...at least that's what we want/need to believe...I just hope that one day medical research will get to make you walk again as I believe that nobody deserves to suffer in this world, and trust progress. Never loose hope, life and future can still hold beautiful things for you.
2007-04-01 07:21:50 · answer #9 · answered by Love_my_Cornish_Knight❤️ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU have a HUGE purpose!
i had a good friend that had the same thing happen... she is a lawyer, and she prosecutes people that did really bad things!
God has a plan for you- You are Special!
2007-04-01 07:13:40 · answer #10 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
God does not orchestrate our lives like chess pieces, he allows us to live of our own free will and is there for us when we need his comfort. Its unfortunate what has happened, and no one can ever say otherwise, but maybe instead of blaming God, if you turn to him, you may find comfort. Good Luck to you!
2007-04-01 07:32:34 · answer #11 · answered by PuckDog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋