why can women wear mens undies with no worries but if a man wears panties he is looked down on. I'm a straight, married man who wears nothing but panties under my clothes.
2007-04-01 06:46:11 · 16 answers · asked by cd_braun 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Unless you show them to someone how would others know?
2007-04-01 06:48:25 · answer #1 · answered by IndyT- For Da Ben Dan 6 · 7⤊ 0⤋
Because there's always been a sexual double standard regarding men and women. Men in this culture are pressured to be "real" men, which usually means rejecting anything that might make him appear gay or feminine at all. Since wearing women's panties means wearing something feminine, it also carries with it the stigma that a person who does this is not a "real man," and/or is gay (even though guys who wear panties are usually straight!) Girls don't get this kind of stigma directed at them because women don't tend to be taken as seriously by society, so if a girl does it it's "cute" or she's just being a tomboy, where as if a guy does it, he's a threat to the masculine core of society. Not saying this is right, but it is the way society tends to work. You can see the same kind of trends in any of the other sexual stereotypes: bisexual girls are seen as more desirable, while bisexual men are seen as gay by straight men and as potentially unfaithful by women (because they fear they will run off with another man). Women can listen to any kind of music they like, but if a man listens to something like Madonna, he's listening to something feminine and thus is "obviously" gay. Women tend to accept lesbians and gay men much better than straight men accept gays, because they aren't raised to feel like their sexuality is going to be threatened by them at every turn.
2007-04-01 06:56:16 · answer #2 · answered by Technopygmalion 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
lol, you go ahead and do whatever make you feel good. I'm not going to judge you. I'm just surprise of the amount of straight guys that are into women undies, we get several everyday in Yahoo. I say if it makes you happy it can't be that bad.
2007-04-01 06:50:57 · answer #3 · answered by rickyhunter 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I don't think anyone is really interested in what you wear under your clothes or whether or not you shave your legs or arm pits.
Live as you like and don't worry about what people think...the reality of it is that...people don't think, people don't notice you as much as you think they do and people don't really care as much as you wish they did.
Enjoy your own life and your own secrets and don't worry about what other people think...they aren't worried too much about what you think as much as you think they do.
Wear panties, shave anything you want, tattoo anything you want, sleep with who you want...do what you think is good for you. No one much cares except the religious morality police and what they think isn't as important as they think it is either.
Don't worry, be happy...
2007-04-01 06:52:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's cute when a girl wears her man's shirts, it's not so cute, when a man wears his girl's shirts. Same concept. Just don't wear the hip hugger pants that shows your g-strings or whatever you wear and you should be fine.
2007-04-01 06:50:50 · answer #5 · answered by treasureyourself 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't care avbout straight married men. If your shlong is so small that you can wear a woman's panties, then I care even less.
2007-04-01 06:48:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I don't think anyone really cares to know what you wear under you trousers pal.
2007-04-01 06:51:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats fine with me. peopel shouldn't worry about others underware
2007-04-01 08:10:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
does your wife knows about it , what does she things is most important u you
2007-04-02 01:20:51 · answer #9 · answered by john 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go for it...but aren't they a little tight in the front?
2007-04-01 07:52:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋