we are engaged. ever since i came back to my place and he is 19 miles away he has been distant. going to work early, hardly talking to me on the phone when i call. what should i do??
2007-04-01 06:26:58 · 19 answers · asked by shannon_shea2002 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Not married; now is the time to Trust, ask, or walk away.
2007-04-01 06:30:02 · answer #1 · answered by wizjp 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him. If you don't believe what he tells you then go to his town and follow him secretly to see what he does, or ask someone there to keep and eye on him and report to you. The phone thing is not significant because some folks, me included, hate to talk on the phone and have trouble keeping a phone conversation going. The only way to find out if he is being upfront with you is to investigate.
2007-04-01 13:32:56 · answer #2 · answered by sissyd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u already know the answer. pay attention 2 whats going on NOW b 4 u say i do. he doesn't want 2 get married. so he changed after u got engaged. well i hate 2 b the 1- 2 say this but, quit while you're ahead. move on
2007-04-01 13:32:59 · answer #3 · answered by lura s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be up front and ask him. Tell him you don't feel like he is giving you the kind of attention that you want. I once thought my fiance cheated on my so I just asked him and we talked about it. If he gets mad when you ask him then maybe he is up to something. Just don't come off as if you are certain that he is cheating. Just ask him why he has been so distant...
2007-04-01 13:30:41 · answer #4 · answered by momoflexi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether he is cheating or not you're still gonna react the same way- jealous. And whether jealousy is justified or not it still looks the same. Its not worth the effort for either party. If you don't know then do him a favor and let him find someone that will have the faith in him he deserves. Or do yourself a favor and find someone worthy of your trust.
2007-04-01 13:32:11 · answer #5 · answered by Meatball ;) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could ask him.you could surprise him with lunch at work one day.visit him where he's at unexpectedly.maybe he's trying to plan a surprise for you, but if he's cheating and you find out with out him telling you first,leave him and don't go back.
good luck
2007-04-01 13:33:58 · answer #6 · answered by mommyof2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself if the relationship is worth it. If this guy is understanding about the way he is treating you, he'll change. If he doesn't it is because he doesn't love you. That simple.
2007-04-01 13:30:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him, hire a private detective, follow him, or if you think this marriage has a chance to work,....TRUST HIM and leave it alone.
2007-04-01 13:30:19 · answer #8 · answered by auditor4u2007 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was magically able to buy park place and all of the railroads...he's probably cheating...
2007-04-01 13:30:15 · answer #9 · answered by Guenther 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start moving on.
2007-04-01 13:30:15 · answer #10 · answered by Emerald Jones 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋