What would you do if you lost someone really close to you what would you do.
2007-04-01 05:36:54 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
That has happened to me. December of 2005 one of my best friends died from a massive heart attack at the young age of 41. Time is the only healer, and still think about him every day.
2007-04-01 05:39:53 · answer #1 · answered by shirley e 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When I lost someone close, I wrote in a journal and the one thing that I still look at every now and then is the list that I made of the 100 things that I loved about them. Looking at it years later makes me laugh when I come across something that I've forgotten about them.
2007-04-01 12:54:14 · answer #2 · answered by Chuck 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have. Lost my parents, grandparents, all my aunts and uncles, cousin and 4 friends. You think your heart is going to break and your life will be over. Life does go on, but it's never the same. I miss them every single day, especially my parents, but you reach a point where the tears have to stop, crying won't bring them back, and it makes you ill. Basically, you survive, minus the pieces of the jigsaw of your life that was once complete.
2007-04-01 12:48:24 · answer #3 · answered by Taylor29 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lost my best friend in high school. He moved to TX and about year later committed suicide. I cried, got angry, blamed myself, and slowly moved forward.
I talked to a lot of people who tried to help me with my pain. Now I help others in pain and try to work with them through their hard times.
There is nothing that makes the pain of losing someone close to you go away, but others and time will lessen it day by day.
2007-04-01 12:44:22 · answer #4 · answered by Athena13 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
"Lost", as in broken relationship or as in the person died? If it's the first one (broken relationship), I would be devastated. I am afraid I might lose a friend. A really awesome friend. A big part of me would go with her. This is so sad.
2007-04-01 12:41:52 · answer #5 · answered by Ms Ghost 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grieve for them, do something in their honor of thier life for them. Perhaps, if it's a disease they passed away from then contribute or volunteer to help out with that particular organization. If a vehicle accident, then maybe something else.
Honor thier memory, and time does heal, give yourself time, you just can't over this in a week. Good luck and god bless.
2007-04-01 12:46:20 · answer #6 · answered by Cindybear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends. If they are still alive, then we can try getting them back until they snap cause of us. If they are dead, then there's possibly only one thing we can do, pray to them to look after you. Either ways, if we dont have them with us, then we should learn to live like that. Crying is not a bad idea either.
2007-04-01 12:48:32 · answer #7 · answered by sreesh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to go through a grieving process. You are in disbelief, you are angry, you are sad, then you are accepting. It is terribly hard and sad.
I believe that a good cry is absolutely necessary. Time alone helps me to deal with death/times of sorrow.
2007-04-01 12:40:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i already have, a sister last april, a girlfriend this february and my grandpa this week...what have i done? ive become much more religious, and charish everything a lot more, i miss everyone a lot...and i have depression, but i fight everyday to become stronger than the next...it's a hard process when everything hits you at once, but i just keep plugging along
2007-04-01 12:41:07 · answer #9 · answered by jtfehr28 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You grieve. You use symbols to stay close to the person. You honor who that person was.
It has happened to me recently for the first time.
2007-04-01 12:40:23 · answer #10 · answered by Claire 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋