We have been best friends since fall, I also half gave up another friend for her. We are like two peas in a pod, everything in common. She's been over to my house like 5 times but I also see her with big groups of friends. She never invites me over by myself. At first I thought it was her mother who is extremely controlling and isn't exactly fond of me!!! But now I think it's her. For example I have to call her, usually she's busy. She doesn't call me really unless it's important or I left her a message. Is there something wrong with me? I thought we were perfect. What should I do? I haven't called so we haven't talked for over a week.
2007-04-01 05:17:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It's hard so say anything as this point, I don't know much about you, so I can say that the problem is yours. May be you can consult with someone who truly knows you or let me know about yourself.
Secondly, the fact is you are trying to have a friendship with her. I don't think that friendship is something that you can have by trying for it. If you can be friends with some people then you'd become friends eventually, and if you can't then you just can't. You'd never be able to be truly friend to them by trying for it.
Another thing is, as you've called her well enough then you've done your part, and there probably nothing left for you to do about it. So, wish that she becomes a good friend to you and then give up. You seems to be a friendly fellow, you'd have a lot other friends, why bother for her?
2007-04-01 05:33:23 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not best friends, it seems like she sees you as an aquaintance and she has a big circle of friends. Maybe you're being a little bit possessive? There's nothing wrong with you, maybe you should make friends with more people...keep your options open so if one friend doesnt call back, you can go out with someone else. You shouldn't have given up your other friend for this girl, you can have more than one friend! If she doesn't make an effort to talk to you soon, then you know shes not really that bothered about your friendship. Go and get loads more people to hang out with, its fun!
2007-04-01 05:30:14 · answer #2 · answered by glamtastic86 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her & explain all this to her..only she can tell you whats really going on..if shes your best friend like you say then you should feel comfortable enought to do this!
2007-04-01 05:25:47 · answer #3 · answered by Amusing but confusing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from what it sounds like to me is your friend's mother is coming between you two since you
stated she is not fond of you. I hope her mother
is not trying to turn your frined against you.Maybe
that is happening.Good luck to you.
2007-04-01 05:25:50 · answer #4 · answered by doulasc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you do something to embarrass her in some way?Did you do something to hurt her feelings?Maybe she just doesn't want to talk right now.Call her right now!
2007-04-01 05:35:14 · answer #5 · answered by meneiko 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to call or e-mail her and tell her how you feel. Tell her to give her honest opinon, and maybe you'll find out why.
2007-04-01 05:37:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why
2007-04-01 05:20:59 · answer #7 · answered by alessio m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋