How compatible are we? Please help.?

Question

My boyfriend is a Cancer born June 22, 1969 and he is 37 years old. I am a female Gemini born June 2, 1966 and I am 40 years old. Please give your opinion on this.

Answer 1

Compatibility really, to me, has nothing to do with when you were born. It has to do with you patience, interests, hobbies, beliefs, values, and personality characteristics.
I think anyone can be compatible with anyone else, if they are willing to compromise. If not, that is olk too. Just find someone else.

Answer 2

Well, the fact that the two of you are consequent signs can make this work; chances are, that you may have several planets in common.
Aside from that, you probably realize that Cancer and Gemini are as different as can be. My main concern is that, with you being a gregarious Gemini, your Cancer guy may interpret this as being "flirtatious", and Cancer is as possessive as the day is long! You're also far more active than he, and more inclined to want to travel, while Cancer's heart and soul is his home.
Only you and he can decide whether your differences are complimentary or create an obstacle to your relationship. Your best bet is to research one another's signs and characteristics to understand what makes you both tick, and go from there. It's not a traditionally good match, but you may not be traditional people :)

Answer 3

Romantic Compatibility

Provided by: Astrology.com
Gemini & Cancer

When Gemini and Cancer come together in a love affair, it may be a rather curious relationship. Sensitive, emotional Cancer has trouble communicating clearly, but clear communication is what defines Gemini. Gemini's chivalrous nature and silver tongue may encourage the Crab to come out of its shell more quickly than usual; Cancer, in turn, can teach Gemini to slow down and appreciate the world, which the frenetic Twins hardly ever take time to do. If Gemini seems to ignore Cancer or doesn't provide them with as much reassurance and intimacy as Cancer needs, trouble may ensue. These two Signs approach the world in such different manners that they must be able to understand and accept one another's differences.

Cancer is the Sign of home and hearth, while Gemini is the thinker. Gemini can easily slip into the role of Cancer's knight in shining armor; Cancer returns that favor with their characteristic urge to protect the ones they love. Quality of home life is important to Cancer, and Gemini will be spoiled by their Cancer lover's hearty home cooking, soft bed and other creature comforts. Cancer is strongly intuitive and maintains an almost psychic connection with their loved ones, but can tend toward possessiveness and idealization of their Gemini partner. If Gemini just reassures Cancer that they're loved and cherished, all will go smoothly.

Gemini is ruled by the Planet Mercury (Communication) and Cancer is ruled by the Moon (Emotions). Cancer tends to keep their emotions bottled up inside as they have trouble expressing themselves. They envy Geminis their gift of open, clear communication afforded by the influence of Mercury. Gemini, in turn, can benefit from Cancer's intuitive approach, so different from Gemini's bubbly, surface nature; Cancer can teach Gemini to slow down and appreciate life instead of passing by the good things in their rush to get to the next new thing.

Gemini is an Air Sign and Cancer is a Water Sign. If these two Signs can work together they can be a great team; after all, the best decisions are made by incorporating the emotions and the intellect. The trouble for these two lies in learning to cooperate. They come from such opposite points of view that at times it can seem as if they simply have nothing in common. Deep, emotional Cancer can also sometimes dampen Gemini's airy enthusiasm, and light, fast-paced Gemini can leave Cancer feeling ruffled, even tattered. Balance can be achieved if they learn to talk openly with one another.

Gemini is a Mutable Sign and Cancer is a Cardinal Signs. Gemini is flexible, willing to go with the flow and follow another's lead; Cancer is an initiator and likes to provide that lead. Gemini may try to lead by being brave, even confrontational; for it to run smoothly between these two, they both need to learn when to back down and let the other lead the way.

What's the best aspect of the Gemini-Cancer relationship? Once they realize they're allies, they can soar to great heights together. Gemini is always thinking ahead and Cancer is quietly supporting these ideas behind the scenes. Each partner's ability to provide what the other is lacking makes theirs a fulfilling relationship.

Good Luck

Answer 4

It is ONLY and OPINION.......... so we are NOT you...meaning (different personailities and character matters)..
OK... Lets start....
Female matured faster than man... has been proven many times over... therefore it automatically age faster than man as well.....This are phenomenon that we cannot change. This is life. For a person younger.... they need to understand that 10years from now... you may look older and haggard than him.. You may not mine... however it may be a different case for him totally. Only time can tell..... if you ambrance this relationship.... embrace with open mind that if this happens... you know how to take care of yourself...
Very often no one can forcast what is going to happen 10years from now..even MMLee has to review every 5years on his economic outlook.
Just make sure you are happy daily... you will end up being happy for 10years to come...and many more years to go....Happiness come from within your ownself.. that the love byou gave out... and NOT the love that you are about to receive or hope to receive for the next 10 , 20 years...
take care....

Answer 5

I'm a Taurus married to a Libra. Today is our 19th Anniversary. Don't worry about the signs. Be best friends, each has to learn to give a little and accept a little, but it is worth it.

Answer 6

it is ok my mom is 30 my dad is 36

Answer 7

i don't know. I just don't know!!!!!!!!