I'm depressed...is this true (does physical beauty give power and how not to abuse it)?

Question

I recently discovered I might have a pretty vagina (though I'm not sure). My boyfriend (first and only one) told me it is very tight (was he just being nice?) and we have been going out for a year now, and a guy I met online told me to send him some pictures of it, and he said "you have a very pretty pussy" and now he won't stop emailing me...it is pink, small, and the labila are small. this has given me confidence, and it shows. at work, people treat me really nice and three people have confessed that they love me...I received a love letter from one of them. however, I am worried that my character will suffer and I am depressed if it is true that people will treat you so much better just because you seem beautiful (under your clothes). I would never cheat on my boyfriend, I love him so much and want to marry him, I've only ever slept with him alone and no other man. I am glad if I could satisfy him. But what if I start taking advantage in relationships of this fact?

Given that beauty does matter, how do you deal with this if you are beautiful and how can you maintain a good character? I am trying, but sometimes your effort just makes you seem conscious of the fact that you are beautiful. I used to be very modest because I was not aware my vagina was pretty, and as a result people assumed I was not that beautiful under my clothes and treated me not so well...but I was able to focus on other things besides relationships. However, now I resent being treated ill...do people assume unnecessarily modest people must not be beautiful naked?

Answer 1

How does everyone from work know how pretty your vagina is? I'm confused there? The other thing is that yes physical beauty can give you power over peoples attention but don't confuse it with real love. Man can love a tree if he so desires but it doesn't mean he want cut it down to plant a prettier one. Which shows you that it wasn't the tree that he love'd just what it could do for him. Besides all vigina's are pretty which is why this is just mess-up all your getting is some kind words about your stuff and you think that means anything? Be careful because if thats all there looking at thats all they want from you.