and plz no one thats gonna call me a loser for caring or crap like that... i just need a few genuine ppl to help if there are any and not just looking for points !
2007-03-31 22:30:37 · 16 answers · asked by I V X 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
wish i could add details .. but ireally cant..... im breakin more and more everyday lol i wish i could stop carin so much for ppl that give a rats *** bout me... i jus cant... its impossible for me and no i dont need ppl to care for me....i jus wonder where they are when i need em is all lol funny huh.....doin it again..... i want all of em happy ! i jus want someone to find me for 2 mins n take care of me for jus those 2 mins haha
2007-03-31 22:42:59 · update #1
dont mistake my lol's for arrogance or nothin like that.... i was jus laughin at myself.....n thanks all of u for the support....thankyou
2007-03-31 22:57:31 · update #2
had to mention im a guy ! 25 yrs....not all guys are dogs !! id like to think im not one
2007-03-31 23:32:15 · update #3
i do the same thing... i guess we're just a better friend than the friends we have
2007-03-31 22:34:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
There simply are not enough of us, kind and under-appreciated people who give and receive nothing back, in this world... the truth is, the people who take advantage of us won't care if we go away; they will just find someone to replace you. However, they may just be dependent on you because they don't know how to help themselves, in which case you should not even expect them to be capable of helping you. Either way, though, you will not be as respected as you want to be by always going out of your way to help those who never return the favor. You will have to cut the leeches off from your support, and decide who your real friends are. Maybe you should actually tell others how you feel and make your decisions that way; if somebody sees how they have mistreated you and want to make it up, keep them. Remember that having you as a friend should be a privilege, and tell all the losers that don't understand that that you deserve better.
2007-04-01 05:42:43 · answer #2 · answered by maya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a caring person and you probably feel like you're being taken advantage of and I can understand why you would feel that way. But it's never a bad thing to be there for someone when they need you even if they DON'T repay you in kind. It could be that everyone sees you as the strong one and don't even realize that YOU might need to lean on someone too, sometimes. So please don't stop being the way you are. A good deed NEVER goes unrewarded. There should be more people like you. ~~smile~~
2007-04-01 07:25:12 · answer #3 · answered by Jade 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's just the way it goes! Whenever I'm really excited or upset about something no one ever wants to hear about it! Yet I always have to listen about other people's crap! I work next to a casino so I'm always having to listen to their crap! "I lost all my money//I won $1500.00," etc. You should never stop trying to be there for people because the second you don't, they'll all need you and think the same thing that your thinking! You don't want to be like that! Sounds like you just need to get a new group of friends!
2007-04-01 06:53:55 · answer #4 · answered by Deadhead Incognito 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with caring about people the way you do, I TOO am the same way! My sister & her kids (ages 20-27) don't even come to see me any more now that they are grown & on their own, but they still expect me to do this for them & that for them, etc. Their mother (my sister) is the same way! For example, when my husband lost his job, at the time, we did not have a phone, so we went to my sisters to ask her if we could use her number for him to put down on applications, she said sure then the very next day, she went & changed her phone #, I asked her why she did it & told her we really need to use her # for him to get a job, she said "Its not my problem" & hung up on me. My husband has since found a better job, & now her husband is out of work, I want to say the same thing to her as she did to me, but its not like me to do it, I care too much like you! There is NOTHING wrong with you for being that way, don't ever stop what your doing cuz when you need help, it WILL come back to you! I PROMISE!!!
2007-04-01 06:13:32 · answer #5 · answered by YAWN 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u are really a nice person that u stand with ur friends when they need u. if nobody stands with u when u need someone like a friend then they are not ur real friends. it,s okay that happens
but try to make friends with people who likes u the way u are.
stay cool with everyone and if u want to make real friends pepole who likes u then try to become friends with people u share same interests or things u guys likeboth.
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2007-04-01 05:40:21 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly what you mean. It really hard cause I feel like there is no one I can talk to but they can always talk to me. Everything I say used to turn into someting about them. You need to ditch these people, and its gonna be really hard but you deserve better than that
2007-04-01 05:35:16 · answer #7 · answered by angellover6056 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry! Everyone needs someone! I don't have much of that either! I hope u change Ur ways and become strong ....and still stay...sweet and spicy!
2007-04-01 05:39:58 · answer #8 · answered by floatnfun 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i cant help you cause i get the same thing all the time...i wish i knew. . . . . i sometimes wish i could stop caring about people but thats who i am and no matter how much i wanna change i cant....dam it!!
2007-04-01 05:37:12 · answer #9 · answered by joyrider28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm always there for other people but I'm not close to them when I need them. Its hard to find them cause they're always busy and such. I try to give them my advice and whatever comes to mind and try not to be one sided.
2007-04-01 05:36:16 · answer #10 · answered by Fia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL, I've been wondering about the same thing. Ehh, it's probably greed.
2007-04-01 05:36:52 · answer #11 · answered by Becca 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋