why do ugly people try so hard to look good and why do good looking people get with them?

Question

dont give me no beuty is in the eye of the beholder crap just answer my question

Answer 1

i think everyone trys to look their best...and good looking people may get with unattractive people because they like their personality, and in turn, makes that person more attractive.

Answer 2

Ugly people try hard to look good because looking good does not come effortless like it does for naturally beautiful people.

Good looking people get with these people because looks aren't the only important thing when you are looking for a mate.

And LOL to the don't give me no beauty is in the eye of the beholder crap.... rofl.

Answer 3

You are either a moron or very shallow. And regardless of whether you want it said or not, it kind of has to be, beauty IS in the eyes of the beholder. Why should a person that you don't deem to be attractive get around like a sloth? And when was the last time you looked in a mirror mate? Bet you're no Greek Adonis either. People, attractive or not, dress up and make themselves tidy and nice because it makes them feel good. Despite what you may think in your tiny brain, people don't get out of bed and make themselves up to please you.
And there is documented research that people naturally gravitate to people of equal attractiveness to themselves, unless there is an ulterior motive, money or power or whatever.

Far out, this question has really got me riled, you are well and truly sucked into society's unreasonable and plastic standards.

Answer 4

Why does it bother you if you see an attractive person with an unattractive person?

It's called grooming, both attractive and unattractive people do it. Everyone wants to look his/her best, so they shower, do their hair, dress nice, spritz themselves to smell nice, they apply deodorant, women apply make-up, men shave - or they might go to a barber to groom their facial hair, etc etc. It's normal to want to look your best. Good looking people do this, and believe it or not, unattractive people do this. There isn't a law saying that unattractive people can't groom themselves.

As for why attractive people are with unattractive people? You don't wanna hear it, but I'm gonna say it anyway... BEAUTY IS IN THE EYE OF THE BEHOLDER.

Some women are attracted to blond men, I am not.
Some women are attracted to Black men, I am not.

There can be a fine looking blond guy, and other women might swoon but I won't care. There can be a fine looking Black guy, and other women might swoon but I won't care.

Some women are not attracted to Middle-Eastern men. I AM, BIG TIME. I love the accent, I like the masculine looks, the dark hair, and yes, even the big nose. I've always liked a big nose, even though it's not usually considered attractive -- except on Tom Cruise. His schnozz is big but he's considered attractive. Anyway, I've been ridiculed for liking MidEastern men, but to each his/her own, live and let live.

Most men don't like fat women, but some men do. My fiance does, he likes soft curves, thick round breasts and butt and legs, and as he says, "no bones."

Outward beauty isn't everything. True, in the beginning, looks count. But in the end, they don't matter anymore.

Example: There was this really good looking boy in middle school, his name was Arnold. All the girls liked Arnold, they swooned and stared. However, Arnold would make fun of me all the time because of my eyes (they've never been symmetrical). For this, he was the ugliest troll in the world to me. He was not attractive AT ALL, I really did think he was physically ugly as sin.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

Answer 5

People generally dress the way they feel inside. :-) How one dresses, how one behaves, accentuates what they're feeling inside of themselves. If an intellectual, well-balanced person, regardless of how they look, may get with another of equal intelligect, equal balance of another. Similar interests, then?

It does not matter how beautiful a person is, if they're "ugly" inside, then they'll attract another very similar to themselves. Likewise for a somewhat homely person, they'll attract another much like themselves.

Homely people have similar prejudices as a beautiful person. For instance, if a beautiful person is attracted to what a homely person can provide them in terms of intellect, then that may be the reason for the attraction. Likewise for someone who does not look as good...?

It is true that looks is often the first law of attraction, but can that other beautiful person hold your attention with what they talk about? Or if one should actually sit down and have a good thought-provoking, open-minded, intellectual discussion, then that might be what holds a relationship?

Confidence in oneself is what attracts another. Appearances of another might not be what is drawing another to another person. Did that make sense?

If you attempt to build a relationship based on simply how another looks, it might not work...

Blah! I don't know if i'm making sense. Ahh well, such is the life!

Answer 6

You are so shallow. I know people hate to hear the whole physical doesn't count thing, but until today I thought just like you. That good looking people should hang with their people and others with whoever they hang with. But today I met the most awesome boy. He is sweet, thinks I am beautiful, and has the most wonderful personality. He saw a picture of me about 2-3 weeks ago and then we finally met today. He is not all that and a bag of hot fries, but he is a wonderful person on the inside, and to me thats what makes him gorgeus.

Answer 7

Whats wrong in trying to look your best? Its usually the old....opposite attracts theory which holds true for a lot of folks. If they both look good then there would be some serious competition which is not really good for a relationship.

Answer 8

because most people aren't a shallow as you. They look for the value in people.

beauty IS only skin deep. there are lots of beautiful people out there that are as narcissistic as you seem to be.

Answer 9

If ur ugly its either try to look good or kill yourself and good looking people get with them cause they know they can take advantage of them. Ha ha ha what a world.

Answer 10

because people feel the need to belong that's why they try to get along no matter how they look. They have to conform. That is the answer.